We have been visiting a dear family member in the hospital. Looking into the eyes of someone trapped in the no mans land between life and death.
Illness and injury impact not just the person, but also their loved one's. Our absence leaves others to carry on.
Debilitating changes can happen suddenly, or develop slowly over time. Modern medicine and surgery can prolong life, or delay death, but nothing can prevent death and "save a life." Our presence on this earth is limited in time.
Trying to live today, as if you will live forever, is often a waste of today.
Live today, as though it might be your last chance to live, to love, to enjoy. Embrace your life . . . your day. Savor each day with things that bring joy and happiness. Treat others as you wish to be treated.
Make choices that are best for you. Respect the choices that others make. They have their reasons. Their beliefs to base their choices on.
So my mood, reminded of what really is important in life.
Sending all good thoughts for you and yours. Not an easy time for anyone.
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DeleteSending positive thoughts and energy your way. Emotions run in many directions at times like these.
ReplyDeleteA few challenging days for us.
DeleteI remember when my Dad died, it helped us celebrate the happy moments of our lives together. So many had stories to share that brought back such lovely memories to us. I agree with you that it is good to focus on the positive in our lives and share that feeling with others.
ReplyDeleteIt would help if Ed were able to talk.
DeleteHugs to you...and as always, very true words, and good advice.
ReplyDeleteSending wishes for peace and comfort as you and your family member navigate this last part of life's journey.
ReplyDeleteThanks,
DeleteThis is a good reminder for all not to take life for granted, and to get pleasure out of the simple things too.
ReplyDeleteChocolate may be the answer
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