We all do this. We see person's gender, and attach to them expectations, values, and behaviours based on the gender appearance.
Much of our bias, is helpful, streamlining social interaction. But negative associations based on appearance, hinder social interaction and lead to us treating good and helpful people, as though they are the enemy.
Becoming aware of bias, allows us to counter our thoughts when interacting with others. Awareness is an essential stage in learning and developing new habits. Change is sometimes painful. Learning that we can be wrong, that others can be different than we expected, maybe even recognizing that we have treated others unfairly before we even knew them.
As to the snowflakes lawsuit. There is a rule in US federal courts, Rule 11, allowing the Judge to assess costs, including the cost of opposing counsel when the case is baseless or frivolous. If I were the judge I would ask for detailed briefs on Rule 11 sanctions.
Reading through this, I thought I should offer an example of positive bias. If I see a neighbor walking with a walker or walking frame, my brain assumes that it would be helpful to hold the door open for the person, that the person might move a little slower. I have at times been that person, and yes it is helpful.
I must admit that I am biased against biased people.
ReplyDeleteA good place to be, their actions and words usually alert us to who they are.
DeleteI confess I am biased against Nazis.
ReplyDeletePositive bias, you know who to punch.
DeleteI often tell people that if you see a Black man on the street, it's okay to note that he is a Black man, But it's how you think and or react NEXT that speaks volumes about you.
ReplyDeleteIt's like telling a new person I have a husband and not a wife; sometimes the person says, "Oh," and then ends the conversation, and other times the person says, "Oh." and then asks me his name and what does he do and how long we've been together.
That said, if you're a Nazi ... say no more.
Always punch the Nazis, they are not "very good people on both sides."
DeleteThere is a lot of biased thinking in today's world and much of it is on prominent display in today's politics.
ReplyDeleteOften I. Negative ways
DeleteA very thoughtful and thought provoking post. In addition to what we have formulated for ourselves, social media platforms and the 24/7 news channels contribute to building biases with their own spins on how information is presented.
ReplyDeleteVery little news out there
DeleteI am very biased when it comes to Republicans lately, altho, I know that many of them are not Maga supporters. It's hard to accept that they would vote for someone like the former president. I have heard more lately about how we need to reach out and listen to each other and find common ground but I find it difficult some times...
ReplyDeleteImpossible to believe the things some say
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DeleteBias can be different than bigotry or prejudice.
ReplyDeleteYes, it streamlines our social interaction
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