Monday Mood: Embrace the Day

Good Morning and Welcome to the first day of the rest of your life. Carpe Diem, Seize the Day. If you don't control the day, it will control you. There will be things beyond your control, don't let them bother you. Breath in, Breath out, drink a glass of cool water, let the world flow around you. Be strong, by being quiet.  Learn something today. Seek awe and wonder around you. Smile and wave at the child. Say please and thank you - make another's days just a little better. Don't be disappointed when you are disappointed; it happens all the time, let it flow like water off a duck's back. 

Find someplace quiet, and simply sit in peace. Take a moment to hear the sounds around you, to look deeply into what surrounds you.  Breath, smell, taste the wonders. Be present in the moment. Find something that makes you smile, something that makes you laugh. 

I am on a digital detox. This post was written ahead of time and scheduled to appear today. I have not missed posting at least once per day in over a decade. While on this detox, I will not have internet access many days, when I do have access it will be limited. Please continue to leave comments, but I may not reply to comments. I will read comments when I can. Normal service will resume in late May. 

The Sunday Five: Music

1: Have you heard a symphony play live and in person? 

2: What instrument would you like to learn to play? 

3: How did your parents feel about you having a toy drum when you were a child? 

4: Have you ever taken music lessons? 

5: What is your favorite kind of music? 

My answers:

1: Have you heard a symphony play live and in person? About 6 times a year for the last 7 years. 

2: What instrument would you like to learn to play? Cello. 

3: How did your parents feel about you having a toy drum when you were a child? My father threatened bodily injury on anyone that gave his kids a drum. 

4: Have you ever taken music lessons? I was in the school band for a couple of years, I was not very good. 

5: What is your favorite kind of music? I have eclectic taste in music. 

Please share your answers in the comments. 

I am on a digital detox. This post was written ahead of time and scheduled to appear today. I have not missed posting at least once per day in over a decade. While on this detox, I will not have internet access many days, when I do have access it will be limited. Please continue to leave comments, but I may not reply to comments. I will read comments when I can. Normal service will resume in late May. 

The Saturday Morning Post: The Color Of Place

Washington DC, is shades of brilliant blue sunshine, warm white Indiana Limestone, at night the landmark buildings are brilliantly lit against the night sky. Art of DC, needs these colors. 

The first time we went to Italy, was in the winter, February, and I found exactly the color tone I was dreaming of, the color tones I had seen in art. Warm earth tones, terracotta and ocher.  The late winter light made it all the more perfect. Italy in art, needs these colors, these are the colors of place. 

I have a special place in my heart for the desert southwest of the United States. My father got a wild hair idea and we spent a winter in Phoenix when I was in the first grade. That experience left etched in my memory the warmth of the landscape against endless deep blue skies. The deep reds and purples of the mountains surrounding the city. Art of that part of the landscape is art of those colors. 

Florida is pine trees and palmetto scrub, shades of evergreen not brilliant or vivid greens. The surf is dark green, and brown, with musty foam. The lakes and rivers of Florida are brown, often murky or muddy looking, the deep springs emerge crystal clear out of coquina rock caves.  Paint it with caribbean blues in the water and it looks wrong, because outside of the shallows in extreme south Florida, that is not the color pallet of nature. 

Each place has a color pallet, look for it, see it, incorporate it into your art, or maybe not if you want the art to look alien to the landscape. 

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Fearless Friday: Go and Do

In her 50's my sister went to a funeral, picked up an old boyfriend and married him. The funeral was for Pete's father, she and Pete had dated in high school and gone separate ways. Pete had gone off to college, she had moved to the nearest town, gone to work, and married the guy down the hall. Pete finished a Phd, worked as a professional counselor, and had been married and divorced three or four times. She had three plus decades in an increasingly unhealthy marriage and had decided she needed to be treated better. Pete flew home for his father's funeral, and never returned to where he had been working.

Shortly after the dust settled on her divorce and moving in with Pete, my mother's health declined, and my sister and Pete moved to Florida, lived with my parents and provided care that made it possible for my parents to live out their lives in the home they loved. 

In the months before before being called to Florida, they flew to Amsterdam and had plans to go onto Paris to place a love lock on a bridge over the Seine. Things went sideways when the boat they were staying on Amsterdam took on water, they put off going to Paris, saying they would do it later. Then they were off to Florida and said we will do this when we move back to Michigan. By the time Dad died and they moved back to Michigan, Pete was already being treated for cancer. Still they said, as soon as he is better we will go and do. Except he bounced from treatment to treatment and never got better. And they never did go and do.  A dream, never to be realized.  

Define your dreams and go and do, now while you can. There is no guarantee that later will be possible. 

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The Thursday Ramble: Three Crossings

For me, there is a romance about crossing the Atlantic Ocean by ship, this is my third time. My paternal grandmother, crossed the Atlantic three times by ship. I pulled her diary out of my cabinet of treasures. She arrived in New York May 18, 1910 on the Majestic, went back to England in October of 1912 on the Lusitania, and then back to New York in August of 1913 on the Adriatic. 

Why back and forth for her. Her father came to New York to work on subway tunnels and the family joined him. He then took a job in Mexico and sent the family back to live with family in London while he worked that job, and they re-joined him in New York when that contract was over. I asked her about sterrage and Ellis Island and was surprised by her answer. They traveled second class, above the water line in private cabins with meals in the dining room. Her father had arranged visas for them, so they didn't stop at Ellis Island, but went to the piers in Manhattan.  Her passage was not first class like the movie Titanic, but much nicer than most immigrant classes. 

There was something wistful about the way she and my great-grandmother talked about the crossing. Something that made me really want to do this. 

So here I am on my third transAtlantic crossing by ship. Having known my grandmother and great-grandmother, it is special. I think they would be pleased that I have done this. 

I am on a digital detox. This post was written ahead of time and scheduled to appear today. I have not missed posting at least once per day in over a decade. While on this detox, I will not have internet access many days, when I do have access it will be limited. Please continue to leave comments, but I may not reply to comments. I will read comments when I can. Normal service will resume in late May. 

My World of Wonders April 29, 2026

Where have I been? Mostly on the ship, with visits to Bermuda and the Azores. I am looking forward to both. In Bermuda I want to get off the ship and turn right, and explore and area we didn't see the last time. The Azores will add another country to the count. 

What have I been eating? The cruise is on Celebrity, noted for above average food, so lots of good things.  Interestingly I usually lose weight on cruises, lots of moving about and smaller serving sizes. 

What am I seeing? Lots of open space.

Where are we going? Through the Straits of Gibraltar, a couple of stops in Spain, then Italy early next week. 

What have I been doing? Falling into a new daily routine and relaxing. 
 

I am on a digital detox. This post was written ahead of time and scheduled to appear today. I have not missed posting at least once per day in over a decade. While on this detox, I will not have internet access many days, when I do have access it will be limited. Please continue to leave comments, but I may not reply to comments. I will read comments when I can. Normal service will resume in late May. 

Travel Tuesday: Mt Vernon Afternoon

I am on a digital detox. This post was written ahead of time and scheduled to appear today. I have not missed posting at least once per day in over a decade. While on this detox, I will not have internet access many days, when I do have access it will be limited. Please continue to leave comments, but I may not reply to comments. I will read comments when I can. Normal service will resume in late May.