Wednesday, May 18, 2016

A Long Journey to Peace


My one and only Uncle died in his sleep Tuesday morning.  Richard, aka Dick was a mountain of a man, with an amazing sense of humor.  He spent decades working the midnight shift in research and development at Ford, perfecting the art of spinning a stories in the small hours of the night.  He grew up on a farm, his father died of a heart attack while Dick was still a teenager.  He lived life, having as much fun along the way as he could, driven by the experience of his father. I don't think he ever expected to live into his 80's, but he did.

He married my Aunt, my one and only aunt, when I was about 5.  I was ring bearer in their wedding.  I can still remember the navy blue suit and red bow-tie.  Dick bought a boat from a neighbor of his mother's, who had won it on "The Price is Right."  He then bought a house on Lake Orion just north of Detroit so he had a place keep the boat.  I spent many fun summer weeks around the boat and the lake.  They owned a couple of Edsels, and later a couple of Mustangs.  Along the way they owned a couple of motor homes, driving one with 7 adults, a 70 pound dog and geriatric cat from Florida to Alaska and back one summer.  My Aunt died suddenly 20 years ago of a brain aneurysm. Dick was older than Edith, I don't think he ever dreamed that he would outlive her by 20 years.

He has been sick for a couple of years.  He spent the past 18 months in nursing homes and hospitals.  He had part of one leg amputated.  I am sure he never expected to have such a long journey through the medical system - a long journey to peace.   I do hope that he has found peace, and a place to spin a long tale.

6 comments:

  1. I'm so sorry for your loss and amused at the image of you in a little blue suit with a red tie :)

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  2. edsels - oh brother! my condolences on your loss.

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  3. My condolences on your loss as well. Nice tribute to your uncle. You pass on a message of living life well. Make the best of any journey that you can.

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  4. My condolences...

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  5. You, like me, are at an age where we loose more relatives than we want to .. Sorry mate xx

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  6. that is a sad tale, thank you for sharing your grief with us.

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