Monday, October 28, 2024

Monday Mood: Contemplative


A shock last Friday evening, word that Sweet Bear's other brother died. Very much unexpected, he was 79.  He had not been feeling well, and told his girlfriend he was going to bed early and if he wasn't feeling better soon he would see his doctor.  She checked on him the next morning and he was dead on the floor of his bedroom. He was very private about his health, evasive in answering questions, so we really don't know what all might have been going on. 

What does this make me contemplate? 

How many more years do we have? 

A reminder that for most of us our life expectancy, is longer than our good health expectancy (by two or three years on average.)  So have fun while you are well enough to do so. 

I booked airline tickets to return from next springs great adventure the other day.  Airline tickets across the pond are expensive next May, and one way tickets are more expensive than round trip tickets (we are taking another cruise across the Atlantic.) After due consideration, and despite my feeling that I was spending needlessly, I booked Saga Class, aka business class / first class on Icelandair.  Bottom line was spending probably an extra $1,000 over the back of the bus (economy, coach, aka steerage.) I felt guilty about it, then a couple of days later we are reminded that we are not going to live forever, and when you are dead the extra few dollars don't make a difference. You are dead just the same.  

Another short trip for a funeral is coming soon. 

 

Sunday, October 27, 2024

The Sunday Five: Public Transportation


1: Is there local public bus service available where you live? 

2: Is there subway (underground) train service where you live? 

3: Is there taxi service available where you live? 

4: Can you walk to grocery shopping from where you live? 

5: When was the last time you used public transportation? 

My Answers: 

1: Is there local public bus service available where you live? Yes, but I almost never use it. 

2: Is there subway (underground) train service where you live? 10 minute walk away. 

3: Is there taxi service available where you live? Yes, good service. 

4: Can you walk to grocery shopping from where you live? There are two specialty markets that are walkable. Not really the kind of a general grocery store I would like to be near. 

5: When was the last time you used public transportation?  Yesterday. 

Please share your answers in the comments. 


Saturday, October 26, 2024

The Saturday Morning Post: Adventures in Flying: All of this and I still fly?


It was a short flight, Lansing, Michigan to Detroit, less than 100 miles in a small jet.  I had been in Lansing for a couple of days facilitating meetings at a dysfunctional organization. I recommended that the CEO delegate a bunch of work, and trust people to do good work. She had a great staff.  Instead she resigned. 

Back to the airport. We boarded for the 20 minute flight to Detroit, and the Captain came over the speakers with the dreaded, we have a problem and we are going to deplane while the mechanics take a look at it.  20 minutes later the Captain comes into the terminal and makes an announcement.  "The plane is sitting on the ground with all the wheels firmly on the ground, but the indicator lights say one of the landing gear is up. It is a bad switch. With the right part and a screwdriver it will be fixed in two minutes.  The part is in Detroit.  We have two choices, we can sit here for two-hours while someone drives the part over from Detroit, or we can lock the gear down, put in the locking pins so the gear can't go up and fly to Detroit, in about 40 minutes.  We can't go over 10,000 feet, or over 150 miles per hour and it will be noisier than usual, but the plane is going to Detroit for the repair. If you want to ride along follow me to the plane, if not, Delta will have another plane here in three or four hours." 

About half of the seats were empty on the flight to Detroit.  I made my connection and was home on time.  


Friday, October 25, 2024

100 Tips to Slightly Improve Your Travel Experience: #29 Money

 

"Don't leave home without it!" money that is.  Today credit / debit cards are almost universally accepted. Some business are cash free, accepting card payments only. So obviously credit or debit cards are the starting point for travel money.  Visa and Mastercard are the two most widely accepted.  American Express is a little less common.  Discover and others are less useful. 

I always have some cash with me, when I leave home or travel.  It is rare, but card networks can fail, or the power can go out.  Some merchants have a minimum transaction amount for cards, and paying cash can prevent needing to buy an unwanted candy bar to meet the minimum. An unwanted candy bar, as sad as an unwanted puppy.   

When I travel internationally I like to arrive with a little local currency.  For the Euro zone, England, and a couple of others I always hang onto left over cash when I return home, and it serves me well on the next trip.  ATM or cash machines in most airports and other points of arrival will also supply cash, though sometimes they charge a higher fee than machines at a bank in town.  My rule of thumb is I would like enough cash to take a taxi to the hotel, and have lunch when I step on shore.  

Thursday, October 24, 2024

The Thursday Ramble: Toys


There is an old saying, that "he who dies with the most toys wins." My favorite toy, has four wheels and a top that folds up and disappears under the "boot" cover. 

My father had a list of a dozen reasons why a convertible was a bad idea. He could get quite adamant about how stupid an open top car was.  They leak, they cost more, they are noisier, they have no back seat room, they have no trunk space, and there are lots of moving parts that are sooner or later going to cause problems.  All valid points. 

When I was a teenager, a friend of mine had an MG-A, and open top British sports car that he and his father had completely rebuilt.  It had a rain cover for the passenger compartment, and no top to close.  I rode with him in it a couple of times, it was thrilling.  Then in my early 20's I had an affair with a lovely person who had an MG-B, in British Racing Green.  She let me drive it, with the top down, the radio turned up, and the wind in our hair (and I had hair back then.)  I fell in love with the idea of a convertible (cabriolet.) 

And my fathers tirade rang in my ears, and I looked past them to sensible four door sedans, and five door hatchbacks.  I have owned a lot of reliable but not thrilling cars, and a hand full of really nice cars. Only one, a Cadillac ever drew a real compliment from my father.  

And yet the desire for an open top never faded.  A sunroof, helped, but is not the same.  A few months after my father died, I had my reliable sensible little Mazda in for service, and I wandered around the dealers lot while I waited. They had a BMW convertible they had taken in trade, I looked at the price, and thought about the balance in my account and the light went on, that I could own what I dreamed about.  

I looked for 2 or 3 weeks, and came across the little white VW Eos. The top disappears at the touch of a button, it is comfortable enough.  It was a few years old with not very many miles on it. I bought it for a price I could pay cash for as a toy. I kept the sensible car and figured I would play with the toy for a couple of years and keep the sensible car.  Two years later, I sold the sensible car and kept the toy.  

Within reason, allow yourself toys, things that make you happy.  When the top goes down, the smile comes up. Same for me, as the man driving the Ferrari I parked next to the other afternoon at the bookstore.  

Wednesday, October 23, 2024

My World of Wonders aka The Wednesday Ws October 23, 2024


Where have I been this week?
Out and about, the Hirshorn, Mt. Vernon, the Swamp, Huntley Meadows, Long Bridge,  I am trying to get out for a walk and see the wonders in my back yard. 

What have I been up to in the Kitchen? Steaks, chicken soup, an amazing apple tart, some nice salads, three pints of sweet pickled golden beets. 

What have I done for myself and others?  Vaccines - COVID, flu, and RSV.  The condo had an onsite clinic for residents. 

Who have a talked to this week?  My Sweet Bear,  . . . it has been a quiet week at home. 

How have We been feeling?  We have both had a nasty cough. We are feeling better, it has been a long week. 

What have I been watching?  Lots of Youtube.  Escape to Rural France, DownieLive, Tokyo Lens, The Pethericks, Glen and Friends, Brian's Life in France, and others.  

What am I reading? A Walk Around the Block - detailed explanations of the things we walk by every week and never really understand. When that one is finished I need to go back to the library again. 

When did I grimace and have to excercise great self control this week?  A political comment, by someone I have called an a$$hole in the past, and who continues to prove it. 

What have I been looking at? The family tree of my great-great-great grandfather, tracing his ancestry from 1794 back.  Back in the 1970s a foundation hired a genealogist to trace his ancestry, the oldest entry is from 1584. My grandmother had a framed copy, that went to my father, and is now here, hanging over my desk. 

Who deserves a big thank you this week?  The condo staff and volunteers who organized the vaccine clinic. It was fast and easy, and just a short walk to the community center. 







 

Tuesday, October 22, 2024

Travel Tuesday: Why the Air Force Museum - the Presidential Collection

One of the biggest reasons I wanted to see the Air Force Museum in Dayton was the Presidential collection, they have three presidential aircraft on display.  Starting with a plane that was customized for Roosevelt (with a wheelchair lift), one from Truman, and then the 707 that brought JFK home from Dallas, and took Nixon to China.  The planes are open, with a narrow glass corridor down through the middle, you can stand where Johnson took the oath of office. Sometime in the next decade or so, a 747 will join the collection.  I might go back for that. 














 

Monday, October 21, 2024

Monday Moods: Planning is half the fun


Back in my youth, Carly Simon sang "Anticipation is making me wait." Sometimes the planning is at least half of the fun, the pleasures that we think about before, are a match for the pleasures to come.  

I am working on planning for next spring's big adventure. The first couple of weeks of it, were planned in one step, fly to Ft. Lauderdale, spend a couple of nights, get on the ship, and someone else plans the next 14 days. Then what? 

Plans have shifted, to avoid a major festival, a couple of extra days were added in an old favorite as the list of gotta see places was longer than the time available and a spring bank holiday popped up on the calendar. Next I need to make plans to move on from there, and ultimately to return home.  There are people and places to see along the way.  A bit of old territory that is new to us, to explore.   In the book store the other day, I picked up a tourist guide to Scotland, someplace we have not been. 

As soon as I have the logistics worked out, I will reach out to a couple of people to connect with along the way. How best to get from London to Edinburgh?

So my mood this Monday, is the pleasures of planning for future adventures. 



 

Sunday, October 20, 2024

The Sunday Five: Parenthood


1: At what age did you really leave your parents home? 

2: After you left home, did you ever move back into your parents home? 

3: Do you have children? 

4: Do you enjoy having children around? 

5: How many siblings do you have? 

My answers: 

1: At what age did you really leave your parents home? 22 

2: After you left home, did you ever move back into your parents home? No, late in life my father said his greatest fear was that the kids would move back home after we left. 

3: Do you have children? No 

4: Do you enjoy having children around? If they are quiet, but I really don't understand them. 

5: How many siblings do you have? Three. 

Please share your answers in the comments. 

Saturday, October 19, 2024

The Saturday Morning Post: Adventures in Flying: Thud again!


When my parents were still alive, I would fly to Florida a couple of times a year to visit. The year they died, I flew to Orlando 11 times.  

I was returning from a visit one Thanksgiving week.  To beat the crowds, I would fly down the Friday before the Thursday holiday, spend a week and fly back the day after the holiday. Planes were a little less crowded.  I was changing planes in Atlanta, Georgia. You can't go to hell without changing planes in Atlanta. Things were going well.  We were seated and settled in and there was a Thud and the plane shook slightly from side to side.  There is often a thud when the baggage doors are closed, but the side to side shake was not normal.  When the ground crew went to back the baggage conveyor away from the plane, they missed reverse and slammed into the side of the plane. 

After a couple of minutes we were asked to deplane, and wait in the gate area. About half an hour later, the pilot took the microphone and said, "as you know the baggage handlers bumped into the plane, and dented it. The mechanics have checked it, sent photos to engineers at the manufacture, we have tested the pressurization, and they assure us it is safe to fly. We are going to go, if you want to go please board, if you are uncomfortable flying in this plane the gate attendants will book you on the next available flight."  

The seat next to me was empty on the flight home that afternoon.  

Friday, October 18, 2024

100 ideas to slightly improve your travel experience: #28 Subways


In many major world cities, subway trains are often the best way to get around the city, for any distance to far to walk.  Don't try to drive in New York, London, Boston, Paris, Chicago, Rome, or Washington DC, traffic is almost always terrible, parking is hard to find and can be incredibly expensive. 

A few tips on how the systems work. 

Find where you are on the system map, and where you want to go.  Identify what line(s) run there, and in that direction. Most systems identify the direction of travel by the station at the end of that trains route.  Where I live, if I want to go into Washington DC, I find my nearest station Huntington on the map, and then look into the city on the map and find that the Yellow line will take me in ending at Mt Vernon Square, or along the way I can change to the Blue line in the direction of Largo - it crosses the city in a different direction.  So I want a Yellow to Mt Vernon Square or go in a couple of stations and I can change to a Blue in the direction of Largo and those will take me into the City.  It take a couple of tries, but once you get used to it, it is a fairly simple system.  

Not if, but when, you get on a train going in the wrong direction, go the the next station, get off, and get on a train going in the other direction. Don't panic, it will add a few minutes to your trip but you will get there.  It happens to all of us sooner or later. 

In some of the older systems, there are separate stations for trains traveling in different directions, so in New York if I want the #1 line, north or uptown I enter on the east side of the street, if I want it going downtown or south, I enter the station on the west side of the street. If I go in the wrong side, I can't get where I want to go without exiting the station and changing to the other side of the street. 

Increasingly subway systems allow payment with any tap and pay credit or debit card or phone pay system.  Check to see if they do before you buy a fare card.  Some systems have a specific phone app for payment. Almost all have a fare card system.  The cards are generally sold in vending machines in the stations. There is usually a small fee for the card, a dollar or two. Most of the cards are reloadable. The disadvantage of a fare card is you will almost always have a balance on it when you leave the city, and most of the cards expire.  I have seen donation boxes at airport stations where the balance on the cards is passed onto charity.  

In my hometown, the DC Metro Rail system has a smart phone app, and fare cards.  Chicago and New York now accept tap to pay credit or debit cards, and have some kind of smartphone payment available.  I have had a London Oyster card for about 20 years, and the last time I was there I was pleased that it still works.  

Thursday, October 17, 2024

The Thursday Ramble*: Knowledge


Never in the history of humankind, have so many people, had such easy access to so much knowledge, information, and facts.  At the click of a keyboard and mouse, I can access an almost endless library.  I just have to ask the question, and then evaluate the answers to sort the real facts, from the alternative facts.  The internet as a resource is less than 50 years old.  

Earlier this year I read a book on the history of books. 250 years ago, public libraries as we know and love them in the United States, didn't really exist.  Libraries were private, belonging to institutions or individuals. The first lending libraries in the USA were membership organizations.  Each member paid an annual fee that was used to purchase books for the collection, that the member could then borrow from the library. Today I can walk into my local public library and borrow any book on the self, and they will order in for me anything in the system. Very much any question I have, the library can help me find the real facts; alternative facts are in the fiction section. 

I am fortunate to have earned and paid for a solid education.  I learned how to learn, how to structure inquiry that leads to facts, and rules, that lead to logical conclusions.  Only one of my grandparents had more than a grade school education (8 years of education.) And yet, they knew the basics of how to learn, how to read, how to frame an issue, how reach a conclusion based on the facts.  The challenge for them was often access to knowledge.  They left school to work on farms and in factories, to keep their families alive.  

Higher education has never been more available, or more unaffordable in the United States.  I have a four year degree, a BA degree from Rollins College in Winter Park, Florida.  Rollins is a nice private liberal arts college, frequently ranked as one of the best small colleges in the country.  Tuition and books are now estimated at $61,500 per year, nearly $250,000 (plus living expenses) for a University degree. I don't know what I paid, it certainly was not that much. I went to college part time, worked full time and paid for it as I went.  

In the United States, law is a graduate degree, a doctorate.  You have to have a four year University or college degree to be admitted to most law schools.  For law school, I went to a state school, with instate tuition, at the University of Louisville. Currently the cost of tuition, books and mandatory fees is just over $33,000 a year - and it is a three year program, overall the total would be right at $100,000.  This does not include living expenses, those are estimated at another $25,000 per year, at least they will let you borrow that much, meaning that most of the graduates from this mid-level state law school are going to owe about $175,000 when they finish.  When I finished in 1999, and I had borrowed what was allowed, based on the calculated cost of attendance, I owed about $45,000.  

Why has it gone up so much in 25 short years? States expect more from the Universities, and fund them with less money.  The state expects higher graduation and employment numbers, but has not increased in a meaningful way the funding needed to make that happen.  

When Joe and Kamala talk about forgiving student loans, they are is really saying the Federal Government will pay off the loans. In essence the government is spending money today, that it should have spent over the past 25 years supporting higher education.  

An educated populus earns more, makes better informed decisions, commits fewer crimes, helps to build a better society.  Educated people are more likely to be able to tell the difference between facts, and alternative facts.  

 *Ramble, or is it more of a rant?

Wednesday, October 16, 2024

My World of Wonders, aka the Wednesday Ws October 16, 2024


Where have I been this week?  Close to home, the grocery store / pharmacy, a walk at the airport, a walk on King Street, the library, a walk in the swamp at Dyke Marsh, the farmers market, a walk and out to lunch, and the Hirshorn. 

What have I been cooking this week?  I bought a whole beef tenderloin and cut steaks and roasts from it, so we had steak the other day, chicken noodle soup, a lemon custard pie, 

Who have I heard from?  Kim, and old co-worker from my home builder days in Florida.  She wants to know when I am going to come for a visit, it has been a long time. 

When will I start planning the next adventure?  Already have, and figured out this week why I was having trouble finding a hotel in Amsterdam.  It is Kings Day weekend, we will be skipping Amsterdam on next springs adventure. 

What is the sculpture above?  The end of last month, Angus from St Andrews was here in Washington DC. He posted a photo of this, I instantly knew where it was, it is along the side of the a Catholic church near Gallery Place.  I have walked or ridden a bike past it a thousand times in the past 16 years. The church does a lot of outreach to homeless persons in the community. There was a lady a block or so from there who lived in cardboard boxes for years. She would always smile and say Hi when I walked by. She would tell anyone who would listen, that she was owed money.  A volunteer took her serious one day, and discovered that she was entitled to a federal pension based on 30 years of work in a government office.  She had failed to cash the checks during a period of mental health issues, and the payments had been put on hold.  She was owed a decade of back pay, and enough of a monthly payment to live with dignity.  

What made me go "Huh!" this week?  Politicians, and a family member, who think that the government is manipulating the weather. Untreated mental illness is a real problem at times.  

What made me sad this week? I walked past the White House a few days ago, and the 20 foot tall riot fence has been put back up.  This is an additional barrier, about 250 feet away from the usual spiked fence around the Presidential Residence. It is good to see that they are prepared in case a sore loser decides to send his mob to forcibly attack the White House, very-very sad that it is necessary. I hope the police are well armed and authorized to shoot if attacked. 

What made me sad part 2? An old friend is in poor health, heart failure, kidney failure, he has been in the hospital for five weeks. 


Monday, October 14, 2024

Monday Moods: Kindness and Humor

Reading blogs and comments this last week, someone (I can't find who for sure) mentioned a lack of kindness and humor in the world.  In many ways I feel this.  

I often write about tiny acts of kindness, being nice to one another. Go out today and do something kind.  Send a note to a friend that is struggling, open a door for someone whose hands are full, let the other person go first. Tiny acts of kindness add up. Leave a kind comment on someone's blog, or at least refrain from saying something negative.   

I find myself being touchy about things people say, likely in an attempt at humor, that I take offense at.  

I miss the Comics page in newspapers.  A full page in black ink, six days a week, about half of which were funny, multiple pages in color on Sunday.  Back when we read print newspapers.  A media that has all but gone away.  I read the Far Side daily (linked in my daily reads.) I miss Hagar, Andy, Snoopy, and the Family Circus. When I was in Orlando the daily cartoon on the editorial page was written by Jake Vest, 'That's Jake" always found humor in the weirdness in daily life.  

Back in my legal aid days, I would create and present an hour long ethics presentation every year for an annual conference. One year I illustrated the entire hour with cartoons I had collected over the years.  I remember one, two women standing next to a coffin, one says to the other, "can I tell you a secret, life insurance is easier to collect than child support." This illustrated the point that lawyers hear things from clients that they must hold in strictest confidence. Sure enough someone was offended, saying this promoted homicide. 

A brilliant therapist once told a dear one, "if you can't remember the last time you laughed, it has been too long." 

This week, let's commit to an act of kindness and to find something, anything to laugh about. 


 

Sunday, October 13, 2024

The Sunday Five: Planes, Trains and Automobiles


1: Is there passenger rail service available where you live? 

2: How far is the nearest airport with airline service? 

3: Do you drive? 

4: Given a choice of planes, trains or automobiles for a trip of 500 miles, what is your choice? 

5: Have you traveled by long distance on a bus? 

My answers: 

1: Is there passenger rail service available where you live?  Yes, the nearest Amtrak station is about a 1.5 miles from home. 

2: How far is the nearest airport with airline service? About 5 miles. 

3: Do you drive? Yes, often. 

4: Given a choice of planes, trains or automobiles for a trip of 500 miles, what is your choice? For 500 miles, fly. 

5: Have you traveled by long distance on a bus? Only once when I was a teenager. 

Please share your answers in the comments. 

Saturday, October 12, 2024

The Saturday Morning Post: Adventures in Flying: When Things Go Thud


I changed planes in Charlotte North Carolina one morning, I had been flying since the day before. The last leg was on a small regional jet, the last leg home from my first trip to Alaska. 

We had settled in, I was talking to the guy sitting next to me who was flying out to drive home a car he had bought without seeing. The plane started to push back from the gate and it went thud. It felt like we had backed over a trash can or something. The plane pulled forward a few feet, backed up again and this time I could hear metal tearing.  We came to a stop, the pilot came out of the cockpit, opened the door and charged off shouting "what in the hell have you done to my airplane!" 

It took a couple of minutes for the flight attendants to assess what was going on, and make a call to the terminal. 

What had happened? 

We had backed into another airplane, twice.  

We would need to get off the plane while the damage was assessed.  As I got off, I looked over and the end one wing was torn loose and hanging down.  It didn't take long for the airline to say, please go stand in line at customer service for rebooking.  

I was flown to an airport, about 90 miles from where I headed, put on a chartered van and driven onto the airport. Several hours late, I did arrive home that day.  


Friday, October 11, 2024

100 Ideas to Slightly Improve your Travel Experience: # 27 Trains


Sadly in much of the United States, passenger rail service either does not exist, or it is terrible. Where is train travel does exist it can be a very pleasant way to travel.  On the east coast, from Boston to Washington DC, passenger rail service is good, relatively frequent, and often a bargain.  The California coast has good service, a mixture of a state run service and Amtrak, there is a main line up the west coast to Seattle.  Florida has expanded passenger rail. And there are a few other regional train services are out across the country. 

We are a ten minute walk from a subway station, two stops up the line and the train station is next to the subway station.  Wait on the platform.  Board, find a seat and settle in.  The train staff will come by to scan you boarding pass in a few minutes.  You can get up and walk about, the cafe car will be open most of the ride.  There is no X Ray, body scanner, metal detector. 

For me, from Washington to DC taking the train beats flying or heaven-forbid trying to drive up the east coast.  Our nearest station is Alexandria, Virginia.  If I take a train from there to New York, it takes about 4 hours.  It is a 20 minute ride into DC, then the train changes engines with a layover that takes 30-40 minutes.  If I take the subway into DC and take the train from DC to NYC the travel time is about 3 hours. It takes about 45 minutes to take the subway into the train station in DC from home. Strangely it is often cheaper to travel from Alexandria than it is from DC.   If I avoid holidays, Fridays and Sundays, trains are inexpensive.  The trip we just did was about $80 per person round trip.  If we took the night train it is about $50 round trip.  

Fridays and Sunday a lot of people travel to see family for the weekend, and it can get expensive.  A couple of years ago we went to Philadelphia to have lunch with a dear friend who was in for a conference (she lives in British Columbia) and the train was almost $200 a person round trip, up and back on a Friday.  

There are a few places, like Wilmington Delaware, that do not have airline service. To get there you take the train, or deal with miserable east coast traffic.  

When we travel internationally, I always look at rail.  Train service in Europe is generally excellent.  In some countries it is a bargain, in others it is not. Always worth looking into. 

 

Thursday, October 10, 2024

Thursday Ramble: Real Bookstores.






Last Thursday evening, I went out for a walk.  After my post lunch nap, I looked at a map of the area around the hotel and found that I was only a few blocks from the Flatiron Building. I had never seen the building, famous in early photos of New York.  Sweetie Bear wished to continue his nap, so off I went on a nice walk. 

The Flatiron building is currently wrapped in scaffolding, undergoing renovations after more than 120 years in the City.

About a block away, by The Rizzolo Bookstore caught my eye.  I went in for a wander.  It is not the biggest bookstore, but it is elegant and refined.  It has an artsy, fartsy vibe that I love.  The offerings in local books, art books, history, photography, and philosophy are carefully curated to offer the best. The last room has the delightful orange chairs for authors to talk about their work. 

I purchased a volume of translations of Seneca, titled "How to Die" (I am doing research for a book project on legal and ethical issues in end of life.) I couldn't hold back by feelings, I told the young clerk that "I wished the store was across the street from where I live."

I miss real bookstores.  There are a few of them around.  I try to buy something and encourage them to stay around.  My local here in Alexandria, just doubled in size.   

Wednesday, October 09, 2024

My World of Wonders aka the Wednesday Ws October 9th edition




Where have I been this week? New York City, we went up last Wednesday and returned on Saturday. Sunday I needed to go to the grocery store, Monday the bank, Tuesday into the City for a surprise party for a former colleague who is getting married.

What is next?  I am home for two or three months, most likely the next trips will be New York to see a blogger and Phoenix near the end of January.

How Was the trip? Wonderful, I had a three nice walks in an area of NYC I had not spent a lot of time in.  The train up and back was comfortable, and only a few minutes behind schedule.  The hotel room made cruise ship cabins look spacious, but was comfy and quiet. 

What have I been eating? Lunch on Thursday kabobs at a Persian restaurant, lunch on Friday was New York deli food at Juniors in Times Square, Sunday I made a beef stew. 

Who deserves a big Thank You this week?  The condo security staff, I left the headlights on my car on the other evening and they called to let me know, just in time. 

What is in the photos above? The Post Office in the Moynihan Train Station at Penn Station in New York.  The original greek revival Penn Station was town down in the late 50's early 60's to build the Madison Square Gardens Arena, the train station was moved underground, under the Arena.  It was cramped and really ugly.  Across the street was a massive central post office in the same style as the original Penn Station, that was largely no longer used.  So it was converted to the new Moynihan Train Hall, it is elegant, and bright and very pleasant.  Across the front of it, there is the restored original retail part of the post office. Is it better in black and white or color? 

What made me laugh this week? I have been binge watching old British sitcoms, the Vicar of Dibley this week. 

What was the strangest sight of the week?  The Naked Cowgirl in Times Square, she has to be at least 80 years old, gravity has not been kind to her.  I didn't take a photo. 

What am I reading?  I finished "Finding Your Landing Zone: life beyond the bar," (I am reviweing this one for the "Voice of Experience") and How to Die. I am in the middle of "The Great Gatsby" and "It is good to suck at something."  Gatsby is a reread from high school, I still find the characters and narrators hard to follow - easy to confuse. The other book talks about the joys of doing something you enjoy doing, even if you are not great at doing it.  

What was the great AhHa moment of the week? Returning home from an adventure and not having to think about returning to the office.