I am the person who is always asking, are we having fun yet. Yes, I am that annoying person, who always looks for the sunny side of life. It is fun listening to people's reactions to the simple question, "are we having fun yet?" I figure life is short, we are only here once, we might as well have a little fun along the way.
It took me a few decades to figure out that happiness or misery, is something that comes from inside me. Others can only make my day fun, or awful, if I let them inside of my being. I work hard to throw out of my being, those that make me miserable. When the universe craps on my day, I shrug it off, take a shower, and go in search of the fun or absurd. It is a long way to go, when you have just passed the tonsils.
Are we having fun yet?