Today I am rounder, balder, my hair is longer, and I am much happier with who I am. My self image my self portrait is better. I started the other day thinking about what to say in my retirement article in two years and a month. Yes, I sometimes think and plan that far in advance. I am happy with what I have done.
Love yourself. It is hard to ask others to love you, if you don't love yourself. You are in good shape, round is a valid shape.