Thursday, May 14, 2020

There Is Fun To Be Had


An old friend texted me recently that he was bored, he said he had been sitting around playing to much solitaire and watching to much porn.  I somehow missed the opportunity to say, "aren't those two the same?" I suggested he take a drive, and a couple of days later he sent me a picture of Lake Superior, about an hour from his home. 

I have been cooking a lot recently.  I love to cook, I have more time to do so.  

I have changed a lifelong bad habit of eating lunch at my desk and working through lunch, I have started taking a break and leaving my desk.  We have time to change old habits, establish new ones.  

I have taken the cars out for a drive.  You kinda need to do this, the battery in my grocery getter, died, from neglect.  The car had only been driven 98 miles since it was serviced and inspected in early January. If you are allowed to drive, get out and keep your battery charged, it will recharge your emotional battery as well. 

I have discovered the joys of delivery services.  I needed shower gel, with the new shower I am spending more time staying clean.  I went online, placed an order and right on "Target," it arrived at my door a few days later.  No standing in line, less collateral damage of things that just seem to jump into the cart when I am in the store.  The other afternoon I placed an order on Amazon Fresh, the next morning it arrived at my door before noon, and I didn't have to deal with the tight-dark parking garage at Whole Foods.  

I have been walking more, I am seeing things in the neighborhood, that I had not seen in a decade of living here.  I have started riding my bike again.  I really hadn't ridden in almost 6 years.  I do enjoy it, I need to be careful, but it feels wonderful to be riding again.  I just need the weather to be a little more consistent.  

I am reaching out to old friends.  I saw on Facebook that an old friend had been approved for tenure at the University of Kentucky and emailed her.  Gloria has had a long and tortuous history of good jobs gone bad, it was good to see that she finally got what she so deserves.  We joked back and forth by email, she is going to teach two more years then retire.  

Yes there is a lot of crap going on in the world right now.  But there are blogs to be read, and fun to be had.  Happiness is an inside job, not something that comes from outside.  Find your fun, and enjoy life, while we are here we might as well dance.  

What are you doing for fun? 








12 comments:

  1. knitting a scarf for mistress maddie's mom, reading books, listening to classical music, reading my friends blogs.

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    1. It this what retirement might be like?

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    2. if so, it sux major ass! I'd rather work.

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  2. I'm curtailed online just for a small break...im baking, walking and currently gardening for my mother. I like to take drives too. Especially where I live...nice back roads.

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    1. I have nearly stopped looking at the news, I can't totally stop there are some elements I need to look at for work, but cut way back. Even the not so back roads, are less crowded. Looks like convertible weather today.

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  3. Anonymous5/14/2020

    Is there such a thing as too much porn? I have been walking a lot more and my stamina is rising. It is not all good. My partner is so stressed and takes it out on me, but that is not unusual and after forty years I know how to deal with it. I really want go go and sit outside a cafe and have brunch.

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    1. It is a stressful time, family law attorneys are seeing a spike be calls.

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  4. I have a severely compromised immune system, so I'm staying home. I've signed on to more blogs, and I'm enjoying reading about others' "doings." I listen to books on CDs or eAudio as I do chores such as counting out my meds, making the bed, cooking meals, paying bills, etc. That's about it. I used to read six or seven books (actual books) each month. Last month I read one and six eAudio. So far this month, I'm still finishing a book I started weeks ago, but I've listened to three. We have our groceries delivered and order tons of stuff online.

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    1. Staying safe and well is a priority. Make the best of what is happening. I should try audio books, my reading is tied to my subway rides, I haven't finished a book since March.

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  5. YES, this is what retirement is like -- it's wonderful having time on your hands to discover/rediscover new things and old favourite things that have been neglected!

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    1. And under "normal" circumstances there would be do much more open to see and do. I reaffirmed to my office today, 39 months (actually 38 months and 16 days.) If they would guarantee me health insurance until retirement age, I would bail sooner.

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  6. I am learning a lot of card games and making a few new meals/dishes. It's lovely.

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