Saturday, September 06, 2025
The Saturday Morning Post: 50 States in 52 Weeks: Oklahoma!
Friday, September 05, 2025
Funky Friday: On This Day in 2005
Along the way we have made some wonderful friends. Blogger tells me I have posted over 4,700 times, been viewed over 2.2-million times, and had over 46,000 comments. Blogging has become a part of my life. I have even published an article about blogging as a hobby.
I am looking forward to another year of blogging.
How can it be 20 years already?
Onward for another 20 years or so.
Thursday, September 04, 2025
The Thursday Ramble: Bullish On Life
There is so much bull exhaust in the world, and yet I remain bullish on life.
When I got on the elevator the other day, there were two older guys in the car, one with a walking cast on his foot, the other helping himself with a walking stick. They made some remark about their challenges, and my response was, isn't it wonderful that we are up and moving about under our own power. I love a good simple walk. I try to walk an hour each day. If I needed wheels to move about, I would roll an hour a day. Get out and move. If you don't the vultures will start to circle.
In the movie, "The Longest Day" there is a scene where a group of Nuns walk through artillery fire to attend to the wounded, because they are trained nurses and that is what they do. Get out an walk boldly like those Nuns.
There is so much beauty in the world. Stop and see it. Look around, art, nature, architure, and design are all around us. There is so much to take in. As I write this I turn to look out my window, and the trees are turning into the late summer early autumn yellow tinged green. More of an olive green, than the suffocating deep greens of summer and the almost fluorescent greens of spring. In a few months, the branches will show the underlying strength of the trees. There is beauty in all of this, I try to keep my eyes and mind open to take it all in.
The library is filled with books I have not read. I could indulge in a different book each day for the rest of my life, and never exhaust the supply. Each one of them, even the ones I would set aside after a couple of pages, bring something to my life. (Sometimes we need to sample what we don't like, to help us understand what we do like.)
The world is filled with wonderful people. Now I know some people are despicable, best avoided, while karma catches up with them. But there are so many polite, kind, interesting, fun, or funny people. I talk to strangers. I gain something from each interaction. (I also check the BBC homepage each morning looking for the Big Beautiful Obituary - in all of this post, I know this one sentence will draw the most comments.)
A long time friend of mine has recently had cochlear implant surgery, restoring hearing lost to a decade as an artillery commander. He said it is so wonderful to be able to follow a conversation again, to hear the leaves rustle in the wind, the birds chirping. To hear life again. I am so happy for him.
It is a bit of a struggle to avoid the bullshit and focus on the joys and wonders of life, but I need to do this, or surrender my dignity.
I remember a conversation with someone who was being hounded by debt collectors. She felt hopeless, to point of thinking about suicide. I assessed the situation and gave her both a legal and a human advice. She had nothing that the debt collectors could take, in legal terms she was collection proof. She could hang up and refuse to answer the calls of the debt collectors and there was nothing they could do to her. Then I gave her a little human advice, "all the debt collectors can take from you is your dignity, and you don't have to let them do that."
In challenging times, don't let the bullshit take your dignity. There are intentional efforts to make us angry, knowing that it steals our dignity and peace of mind. We don't have to listen.
I saw this the other day, the bourbon industry is taking a beating. And Canada makes some rather good stuff. They are not letting BS get in the way of good booze.
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A tasty souvenir from Toronto. |
Wednesday, September 03, 2025
My World of Wonders - aka The Wednesday Ws - It is September Already?
What is my profound thought of the week? We need a favorite local drive, when I lived in Orlando, it was the back road from Oviedo to Winter Springs (Tuscawilla), in Lexington it was the road from Versailles to Frankfort, here it is the George Washington Parkway from Alexandria to Mt Vernon. Pretty and relaxing.
Who deserves a slap this week? AI spambots. They post comments that write a quasi summary of the post, but what they are really doing is linking to their blogs packed with advertising. I mark them as spam and delete them. If they want to advertise on my blog, Adsense will be glad to sell them space. Five out of Five slaps.
Who have I talked to this week? Hmm, the week before was very social, this week has been kind of quiet. The father of a neighbor who was visiting for a few days, we talked about living here around the pool the other day.
What am I watching on YouTube?
- Brian's Life In France is a delightful spin-off from Escape to Rural France. He is a delightful Irish man, living and working in rural France who invites us along for the ride.
- https://www.youtube.com/@Brianslifeinfrance
- Chateau Poseidon is a new channel, two guys from British Columbia who have bought a massive chateau and are laboring away on restoring it and building a new life. A cute youngish couple. They post once a week.
- https://www.youtube.com/@ChateauPoseidon
- Holly the Cafe Boat is back, after a long absence. They have a second baby, and have sold both boats - I hope their transition to land based vlogging goes well. They are really talented content creators.
- https://www.youtube.com/@HollyTheCafeBoat
- Printmaking with Eugene, a small channel that talks about the joys and challenges of creating as a hobby. He posts about once a week, and the videos are short, less than 10 minutes.
- https://www.youtube.com/@PrintmakingwithEugene
Tuesday, September 02, 2025
Travel Tuesday: Arizona Fall 2018
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The entrance to a garage, or the Bat Cave |
Monday, September 01, 2025
Monday Mood: Falling in Love Again
Sunday, August 31, 2025
The Sunday Five: Early or Late
1: Are you an early bird, or the second mouse?
2: Which is more annoying to you the person who is always early, or the person who is always last to arrive?
3: When was a time when you were memorably late?
4: How long before departure time do you leave for the airport?
5: How long do you wait for someone who is running late?
My Answers:
1: Are you an early bird, or the second mouse? I am almost always early.
2: Which is more annoying to you the person who is always early, or the person who is always last to arrive? I enjoy talking with other early birds, I try not to judge those who are not early.
3: When was a time when you were memorably late? My parents funeral, I missed a turn and was 20 minutes late, by brother-in-law was 30 minutes late and he lived 3 miles away.
4: How long before departure time do you leave for the airport? I can be at my home airport in 30 minutes, so between 2 and 2.25 hours.
5: How long do you wait for someone who is running late? Meeting start within five minutes, beyond that 10 to 20 minutes.
Please share your answers in the comments.
Saturday, August 30, 2025
The Saturday Morning Post: 50 States in 52 Weeks: Ohio
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The Art Museum in Cleveland Ohio |
I have long ago lost track of the number of times I have visited Ohio. Located south of Michigan, north of Kentucky, west of Pennsylvania, east of Indiana Ohio is very much in the center of the Midwest, and the gateway to the eastern United States. The state has three major cities, the three Cs, Cleveland in the north on Lake Erie, Columbus kind of in the middle, and Cincinnati in the south on the Ohio River. In between there is miles, and miles, and miles of gently rolling farmland, old industrial towns, and in the south east, petroleum production.
There are great art museums in Cleveland and Cincinnati. A major military aircraft museum in Dayton (on last September's road trip and breakfast with Diaday.)
The Sweet Bear is from Cleveland, we have made many trips there to visit family. Cincinnati was a great city escape when we lived in Lexington Kentucky, less than a 100 miles away. Cincinnati has many more big city amenities like museums and shopping than Lexington, it made a great weekend getaway or day trip.
Ohio is probably underrated as a tourist destination, there are many things to see and do. The winters are a bit much for me - the West Side Market in Cleveland is one of the best in the country.
There are major airports in Cleveland and Columbus. If you fly into Cincinnati, you are actually flying into Kentucky - just across the river.
Friday, August 29, 2025
Friday Fun: Smiling Tops and How Frank Sinatra Keeps the Gnomes Away
The top quit working on my little VW convertible (cabriolet) way back in April. We were getting ready to leave for a month, and the top closed just fine, it wouldn't open, so I just ignored it. I have this fantasy that if I ignore problems they will go away, but most are like that molding cheese in the back corner of the refrigerator, they are still there, and get worse over time. When we returned home, I was in a stingy mood after having spent an unimaginable amount on a wonderful trip. And then the weather warmed up, really warmed up, we had an exceedingly hot summer. I had learned the hard way, that diving with the top down when the temperature is in the high 90's f (about 40c) is unpleasant. So I put off doing anything about the top. Then last week to add insult to injury the check engine light came on. Reluctantly I called the local VW dealer and
Someone noticed that she stopped complaining about the gnomes when the radio was playing. Hmm, a family member suggested, why don't we play music? Her response was "No, you know I don't like all that noise!"
Someone thought about and rephrased the question:
How about if we play music to scare the gnomes away? She responded that is a great idea. Cue the music, playing Frank Sinatra's Greatest Hits solved the gnome infestation.
I had another post written for today, and decided we really needed something more fun.
Thursday, August 28, 2025
Thursday Ramble: A changing World
I am writing an article for the American Bar Association Senior Lawyers Division on how technology will help us remain independent as we age.
My bold statement is that autonomous vehicles will be the biggest change in how we move about in our daily lives, since automobiles replaced horses. I have written about my Waymo ride in Phoenix, I eagerly await their start of service here in the DC area this year.
Apps and email are replacing letters. The Danish Post Office will end letter delivery and concentrate on package delivery. I find that sad. But I can count on my fingers the number of personal letters and cards I have sent or received in the last year. The average address in Denmark received one letter or card per month. Advertising is delivered by private contractors, and letter delivery will be offered by private contractors (think Fedex, without the planes.) Package delivery is a rapidly growing industry in Denmark (and most of the world.)
Britain is going to or has phased out processing paper checks (cheques.) I am down to writing very few checks, the property tax office wants to charge extra to pay by card, and I am too stingy to pay extra on top of my rather large tax bill. We are getting closer and closer to not having any real mail in our mail.
I did a little research, 98% of persons age 64 in the USA regularly use the internet. This drops to about half by age 80. But in another decade or two, the number of adults who are not digitally connected will drop to only those who need help with basic transactions with or without technology. We are only a decade or two away from not needing cash, checks and letter delivery.
My older sister and I were trading text messages. Her 50th High School Reunion is coming up next month. Her first thought was where has the time gone? Then it was with the changes we have see in our lives, what will her grandchildren see in their lifetimes? Her sons grew up with computers in the their rooms. Our grandparents went from horse and buggy to man walking on the moon. We went from typewriters to more computing power in our hand than was used to land on the moon when we were children.
There are a couple of companies developing supersonic airliners. One has successfully tested a design that eliminates the sonic boom. Now to show economic viability. There has not been a major advance in air travel in nearly 70 years.
Passenger carrying drones are being developed and tested. These are more Jetsons, than flying cars. And yes, I would ride in one.
Things are going to continue to change.
Wednesday, August 27, 2025
My World of Wonders, aka, the Wednesday Ws - How Old Am I Edition
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What amazes me? How far I have come from where I started out. Growing up on a very rural farm in the middle of nowhere, I never dreamed that I would finish the education that I did, live in a world Capital, do research and work on national policy and training. Origin is not destiny.
What is next? The next few months are mostly quiet, mostly at home. Next spring we have another adventure. I have bid on a consulting gig that if funded will fill 150-200 hours, and generate a bit of extra travel money. There is a price at which I will gladly return to the paid workplace, temporarily, if the project is interesting. We should know if the project is a go within a month.
What else is special about this day? It was my paternal Grandfather's birthday. He died 49 years ago this fall, and I still miss him.
Tuesday, August 26, 2025
Monday, August 25, 2025
Monday Moods: Late Summer Angest
I have noticed over the last decade that the last couple of weeks in August, are often a weird time for me. I notice it now, but it is probably a longer term behaviour pattern dating back to childhood. The end of August was peak harvest season on the funny farm, a tense time when our fortunes, good or bad, for the year were revealed. It was back to school season, change of routine, new teachers, new classes, new challenges. Work on the harvest would kick into high gear at the same time school was starting, working 7 days a week until it was all in the barrel in late September or early October. And it is also my birthday season.
Acknowledging that this is a weird time of the year for me helps - but does not entirely settle the sense of being unsettled.
Add to that this year some expensive car repairs - I hate spending money on car repairs, and it took almost 48 hours for the shop to tell me what was wrong and what it was going to cost to fix. Assuming the parts arrive I should get the little convertible back, and be able to put the top down late Tuesday or sometime on Wednesday. I look forward to a long drive out to Mt Vernon and back with the wind blowing in what is left of my hair. (The top had not worked in several months.)
Today should be fun, I am meeting an old friend for a long chatty lunch and maybe a little retail therapy. We have not had a chance to sit and ramble on for a few years. Lots has happened in both of our lives since the last time.
Acknowledging and talking or writing about how I am feeling, helps me. Knowing what works for me, and doing it, is good. I should be back to my less stressed status within a few days.
I should find a way to divert myself during the last couple of weeks in August, to change this long term behaviour pattern.
Sunday, August 24, 2025
The Sunday Five: Row-Row-Row Your Boat
1: What is your experience with canoes?
2: Tell us about the last time you were on a boat?
3: What size boat would you like to have?
4: How close do you live to water that you could boat on?
5: Have you ever owned a boat?
My answers:
1: What is your experience with canoes? I have never been in one.
2: Tell us about the last time you were on a boat? In May we took the Thames River Taxi from near the Wheel to Greenwich.
3: What size boat would you like to have? Something small and slow, with a shallow draft that I could explore the wetlands along the river in. It has to be a power boat. Electric would be fine.
4: How close do you live to water that you could boat on? We are about a mile as the eagle flies from the Potomac River, closer than that the Hunting Run, but there are no boats on it.
5: Have you ever owned a boat? No, always wanted to.
Please share your answers in the comments.
Saturday, August 23, 2025
The Saturday Morning Post: 50 States in 52 Weeks North Dakota
My time in North Dakota was purely a work trip. I flew into Bismark, went to dinner, spent the night, taught a full day workshop the next day and flew home that evening. Dinner was on a River Boat, the state aging commissioner picked me up in a massive Buick station wagon. I remember the car more than the dinner or boat ride.
It was before digital cameras, and I was traveling lite and didn't take a camera with me, it was an overnight work trip. So, sadly I have no original photos from the trip (the photo above was taken last April in England.)
A few stand out memories. A Hops farm near the airport. I had never seen hops growing before. It is essentially a vine, and they grow it on massive trellis, probably 10-15 feet tall, and probably a 40 acre field of it near the entrance to the airport.
The hotel we stayed in was on a hilltop on the edge of town, out near the interstate. I was standing there looking out at the view, and a local walked up and started talking. He said, see that tree on the horizon? That is over a dozen miles away, and there is not another tree between here and there, hell there isn't a cow between here and there. The vastness of open prairie is something to see. There are hundreds of miles of gently rolling grasslands across the middle of the country that most people will never see. It is easy in DC, or NYC, to think that we are covering the country with pavement and houses, but we are not.
Would I go back there, yes. Maybe someday I will take a train across the country.
Friday, August 22, 2025
Funky Friday: Explore to Inspire
Google tells me that Pacaya is the bloom of a palm plant, and is used as a vegetable in Guatemalan cuisine. Salted Jellyfish is used in Asian dishes. Foods from places I have not been, foods I have not tried. In the case of Pacaya a food I had never heard of.
Driving home from an outing one day last week we visited a recently opened international supermarket that is a couple of miles down US-1 from home. Neighbors had mentioned it during our last First Friday gathering. One person had found it overwhelming and left in a bit of a panic. Another found it simply fascinating. We had a nice walk around, exploring aslies of the routine and unexpected. We didn't buy anything, but I will probably go back for a selection of things that inspire me to explore new flavors and textures.
Many years ago (I was still living in Lexington so it was before 2009) I read a book on artists and creativity. One of her recommendations was to stop in stores you have never been in before. Explore stores that are totally unrelated to anything you have ever done, or are related but are shops you have never entered. The author urged her readers to do this at least once a week. It can be planned, it can be random, but allow yourself the time to explore the unfamiliar. She was right, I find inspiration in it.
Exploring is like reading things you are unfamiliar with. Readers fall into habits, I have at times read everything an author has published, or everything I could find on an obscure topic like the concept of time, or being alone. Others read romance novels, or mysteries, or science fiction, and tend to stick to that genre. I am primarily a non-fiction reader. On the way home from Toronto I was delayed in the airport longer than expected, I went into the bookshop and bought a novel. Far from the non-fiction I most often read, it was a story, with a plot, and predictable characters, and a little bit of a mystery, and of course an everyone lives happily ever after ending. Will it turn me into a fiction reader, no, but it might inspire me to add more character into my writing, something that is probably missing, especially in my professional writing.
Exploring this market will inspire my play time in the kitchen, maybe leading to some interesting Foodie Friday posts.
Then where was the toothpaste with Herbs and Barks!
Thursday, August 21, 2025
The Thursday Ramble: Developing as a Person
There is a debate going on about the value of higher education. In the United States college education has become expensive. (A note for my international readers, in the United States college is anything beyond high school or secondary school. The institution maybe known as a University or a College.)
Many argue that what we need are tradesmen, such as skilled painters, and a college degree is not going to teach you how to paint a house, or a car. A trade school or an apprenticeship will. Given a choice between a painter with a degree in art and one without, I would hire the painter with. Even a few art classes will teach color theory, color blending, how light works in a space. If I say I want something like a VanDyke Brown the art major will know what I am thinking, the trade school painter will go look in a color chart and likely tell me "we don't have anything like that." I want a painter who has taken some science courses, so they understand the chemicals in the paint they are using, are the fumes harmful? If they spill or drip, do they understand the chemistry of removing the spot or stain.
There as a huge push over the past 20 years to increase the number of graduates in Science, Technology, Engineering, and Math (STEM.) Reports are that increasing numbers of STEM graduates are finding themselves working outside of their field of study. There are two factors at play, there are too many of them, and many of them may be able to do run the numbers, but lack the ability to understand how STEM connects to day to day life. One pundit said, "a degree in computer science, is the fast track to a job at Chipotle" (a fast food burrito chain.) And you know what, I would sooner my burrito bowl be made by someone with a college degree than someone without.
My journey to higher education started at a two-year junior or community college. It was on my drive to and from the office, classes were available in the evenings, and it was incredibly inexpensive (this was the early 1980s.) I after a year or so, I transferred the credits to a private liberal arts college.
Looking back the liberal arts education changed me in profound ways. It opened my eyes to a much wider world. I had a sampling of many subjects, but all of them connected what I was studying to life. For all but one semester, I worked full time and took classes half time, mostly in the evenings. It took me almost ten years to finish a four year degree (there was a couple of years off in there for a failed marriage.)
Along the way, I learned to do research. I learned to read for knowledge. I learned the basics of writing in various styles for various purposes. I learned to understand other people and other cultures. I learned the lessons of history. I learned to speak. How to think and sound like an educated person. I learned how to understand models and apply them. I learned how to find the connections between seemingly unrelated ideas and experiences. I learned that there are things that are fundamentally right and wrong, tolerable and intolerable. I am proud to say, I became WOKE, I woke up to the concept of fairness in the world. A liberal arts education changed me as a human being.
I was able to go on and earn a doctorate in law. Another experience that change me as a person. There are two major things in legal education. One is the development and application of rules. I learned to read past legal precedent, determine the basis for the finding, and apply that to a new set of facts. And I learned the importance of the precision use of words and punctuation. In the preceding sentence, there should not be a comma before the "and" because both the words and the punctuation must be considered. One of my professors had spent several years litigating comma placement in a contract with millions of dollars at stake (her side lost, and several high rise apartment buildings were torn down rather than repaired.)
Higher education helps us develop to our fullest ability. It should be more widely available. It should be more affordable. My BA was paid for when I finished, my three years of law school school, cost about what one year costs twenty five years later at the same school. If the United States is to continue as a leader in the world, we need to address affordability of higher education. An educated workforce, makes a country stronger.
I learned how to learn, and that learning is a lifelong experience. There is an old proverb about growing as a person that goes, as long as you are green you are growing, when you are ripe, you start to rot. I am still green, still learning, still reading, and seeing, and hearing, and tasting, and smelling. I expect to have a stack of books in the process of being read, when they find me decomposing.
Wednesday, August 20, 2025
My World of Wonders, aka, the Wednesday Ws, August 20,2025
Where have I been? Home much of the time, I took three days off to rest and get well when not feeling well. The farmers market. I made it back to gym for treadmill walks starting on Sunday. Last Wednesday we went to IKEA and stopped for lunch on the way home. Aldi and Target for a little stock up. And out to lunch at Chiplotte, the art supply store for canvases and a picture frame.
Who have a talked with? My sweet bear, Ruth from down the hall, a couple of vendors at the farmers market. Giuseppe and Larry.
Who have I reached out to? Doc Spo just to say hi. A couple of old work contacts.
What is the quote of the week? "It was so quiet in the conference room at work, you could hear the cockroaches silently reconsidering their decision to be there."
What have I been reading? Growing a Feast, a memoir written by a farmer on one of the islands near Seattle about farm life, cows, and cheese making. (It is a slow read, you want to savor it like a fine cheese.)
What have I been up to in the kitchen? On Saturday I made roast beef eye round, Sunday I made bread and soup based on the roasting veggies from the beef on Saturday. Home made guacamole.
Where was the photo above taken? The Smithsonian Gallery of American Art. This part of the building was built as a home for the Patent Office, in the early 1800's, served as a hospital during the Civil War, Walt Whitman read the patients and wrote letters to send home to their families in this space.
When is the next adventure? Hmm, ideas but the only firm plans are for next spring. I should do a Midwest driving trip this fall, family and friends to see. And next February there is a conference with a couple of board meetings I should go to in San Antonio.
What caught my eye on YouTube this week? Rewilding Jude, a 30-something English guy, who moved to very rural Scotland and bought an old stone house on an acre of land. He describes himself as burned out and grieving and wanting something different. He is a good content creator. Part of me wishes I had done what he is doing, then I remember that when I burned out in my 30's, I moved 800 miles north, went to law school and started an entirely new career.
What is the weather like? Overcast and cooler. Sunday it was 93, Tuesday it was 70. The forecast for the next few days is cooler. It may be the end of the outdoor pool season for me. But it can easily go back into the 90's (f) in September.