The Thursday Ramble: Get Out There and Go!

I am on the email marketing list for four major cruise lines, needless to say I get a couple of messages a day, touting their most recent offerings. I have two pending cruise reservations at the moment. 

One day last week Holland America sent an email announcing that an around the world cruise was opening for reservations. An around the world cruise is very much a fantasy item for me. The one they are promoting is about six months long, and I didn't want to look at the pricing, probably $50,000 per person. If I win the lottery I might do that. 

As part of the promotion they have an essay content with the grand prize being the around the world cruise.  The question was in 250 words or less, “Why do you want to see the world with Holland America, and which ship would you choose to take you there?”

What do I have to lose?

Here is what I wrote:

Inspired by the words of Henry David Thoreau in Walden when explaining why he went to live in the woods, I “wish to see the world on Holland America” to see if I can learn what the world has to teach, so that “ when I came to die,” I don’t  “discover that I had not lived.” Life is a grand adventure, part of this for me was crossing the Atlantic via the northern route on the Rotterdam, a ship I will gladly sail on anytime. Despite being considered very well traveled, I have not seen Asia, Africa, South America, Australia and Antarctica. There is so much more to explore and learn from. And I can’t think of a better way to do that than to savor the journey in the warm embrace of  Holland America. 

So yes, there is so much more to see, get out there and GO!  

My World of Wonders: July 29, 2026

Where have I been this week? Home, the treadmill, the pool, the grocery store, the ABC store, the Dentist, Cambridge Maryland. 

What did I do in the kitchen this week? I made multi-grain bread. Macaroni and cheese and baked chicken. Pork schnitzel and a nice mushroom gravy. A cherry clafoutis. Meatballs with a stroganoff sauce, a nice sald. 

Who have I talked with this week? Amy, Giuseppe, Paul, Ruth, Rebecca, my Sweet Bear, Lillian at the Gallery in Maryland, the dental hygienist, and Doctor Z. 

What have I been writing? An article on creating retirement job descriptions and goals, written ethics materials, written materials on health-care decision making, and an article on advocacy and the National Aging and Law Conference. 

What made me angry this week? Hearing the repeated lies by Delusional Donny about an election that everyone knows he LOST. If he truly believes he won it, he is delusional - a strongly held belief that has no rational basis in fact. There is a Constitutional provision for this, Congress needs to do their job.  His delusions are dangerous. And he punishes anyone who speaks out against him.  

What am I doubting this week? That Mitch McConnell is alive. It may be that he is just an animated corpse on life support until it is too late to call a special election.  

What travel planning am I doing? I worked out some details on a road trip in October, booked air and a hotel for my Florida trip in February. When we get back from Chicago I need to work out the details on the May cruise. 

What is on the easel this week? Hmm, nothing. I have some ideas but nothing in process. 

Travel Tuesday: Ft Wayne Children's Zoo

 

Monday Mood: What Did I have to Lose?

I am sure I have shown this photo before. I had it printed and I framed it. I was going to use it in a community gallery show, then the show filled up and I brought it home and it is on the wall just inside my bedroom door. 

Every month or so I receive an email from Artomatic, a local group that when they can takes over a vacant commercial space or empty office building and turns it into an temporary art space. In the email were listings of regional events, including a call for submissions for the Graham Slaughter Biannual Photography Competition at the Dorchester Center for the Arts in Maryland.  It was interesting, but I have not had much luck in juried competitions.  But I already had the photo printed and framed, what did I have to lose? So I sent it in. 

As they say, even a broken clock is right twice a day. I received an email saying the work has been accepted for the show.  I will drive over and drop it off today. How fun. 

Anytime you are thinking, I don't know, maybe I am not talented enough, my work is not that great, stop and ask yourself, what do I have to lose? Not much, take the chance. 
 

The Sunday Five: Aging Gracefully

1: What has been your "best" decade of life? 

2:What age range is middle age? 

3: What do you plan to do while you can? 

4: When do we stop saving for old age? 

5: Is the best yet to come? 

My answers:

1: What has been your "best" decade of life? So far, my 60s. I had five years of high achieving work, and now 2 1/2 years of engaged retirement. 

2:What age range is middle age? 35 to 45, life expectancy is about 80, so that is about half way. 

3: What do you plan to do while you can? Stay engaged in life. 

4: When do we stop saving for old age? NOW! 

5: Is the best yet to come? I think I have a few great years left to come. 

Please share your answers int he comments. 

The Sunday Five: Have You Ever

1: Have you ever ridden a skateboard? 

2: Have you ever ridden a bicycle? 

3: Have you ever ridden a bicycle more than 30 miles per hour? 

4: Have you ever sat and watched a skate park? 

5: Have you ever wished you could fly? 

My answers:

1: Have you ever ridden a skateboard? I tried a couple of times when I was a teenager, unsuccessfully. 

2: Have you ever ridden a bicycle? Lots and lots. 

3: Have you ever ridden a bicycle more than 30 miles per hour? Yes, it is thrilling and terrifying at the same time. 

4: Have you ever sat and watched a skate park? A couple of times. It can be very entertaining. 

5: Have you ever wished you could fly? Hasn't everyone? 

Please share your answers in the comments. 

The Saturday Morning Post: Don't Let Others Crush You Creativity

Sadly, I remember the year, we crushed my mother's creative spirit. One year, she made paper napkin rings for a holiday table. Instead of praise for her creative effort, the family found them silly and useless.  I don't remember if they actually made it to the table on the holiday. 

I am very sorry that I was a part of that criticism. I missed the opportunity to learn from this. To use it as a teachable moment. 

A few harsh words, can crush our creativity. Even the most talented of artists have fragile egos. 

There are two sides to this. 

First, always, always, always be kind. As my Grandmother told me, if you don't have anything kind to say, don't say anything. It is okay to not like someone's creative effort, but keep that to yourself. Be careful and kind in what you say. Always encourage others. 

Second, as creative people, we need to not let criticism destroy our creativity. 

Everyone is entitled to their opinion, their opinion does not make your work good or bad. 

Work that is criticized today, is often seen as cutting edge brilliance later. 

Often the critic, is channeling insecurities about their own abilities. 

If your work has meaning for one person, it is great work. 

Please don't crush the creativity of others. Never let your critics crush your creative spirit. 

 

Funky Friday: Strange Farm Facts

I can tell if the barnyard is home to pigs, chickens, cows, sheep, or horses - from the smell alone.

Honeybees smell, actually they stink. In the spring on the farm we would have several hundred pounds of them in a heated garage - you buy worker bees by the pound. 

Pigs and chickens are omnivores, they will eat anything, including each other. 

Cows are vegetarians by nature, but indiscriminate eaters - they sometimes swallow wire, nails, and screws. You then feed them a magnet to gather the metal. Commercial cattle feed often has byproduct meal, in other words dried and ground-up cow bits in it to increase the protein content.  

Horses are fussy eaters and will spit out anything that feels wrong, but are unable to vomit. Their teeth grow continuously through their lifespan. When a horses's teeth stop growing they don't have long left to live. 

Most grain crops are grown from hybrid seed. Planting the resulting grain is often prohibited as a patent violation, and will often result in a plant that is unlike the parent. The seed companies have a near monopoly on the grain that is grown. 

Most seed corn is covered in a toxic coating. Animals and humans have died from eating it.