I am very sorry that I was a part of that criticism. I missed the opportunity to learn from this. To use it as a teachable moment.
A few harsh words, can crush our creativity. Even the most talented of artists have fragile egos.
There are two sides to this.
First, always, always, always be kind. As my Grandmother told me, if you don't have anything kind to say, don't say anything. It is okay to not like someone's creative effort, but keep that to yourself. Be careful and kind in what you say. Always encourage others.
Second, as creative people, we need to not let criticism destroy our creativity.
Everyone is entitled to their opinion, their opinion does not make your work good or bad.
Work that is criticized today, is often seen as cutting edge brilliance later.
Often the critic, is channeling insecurities about their own abilities.
If your work has meaning for one person, it is great work.
Please don't crush the creativity of others. Never let your critics crush your creative spirit.
When puzzled by an artist''s work, one can always ask about the technique or intention in hope that one can learn more, understand, and appreciate the work. Art that is a gift from the heart should always be considered thoughtful whatever the outcome of the technique. It reflects the relationship of the art maker and recipient alike. We left my niece's and nephews' art on the refrigerator when we had my mother's post funeral reception at the house. It was part of who she was. She was their grandma and grandma art on the refrigerator was part of who she was..
ReplyDeleteWill Jay
Tell us about the art you shared here!
ReplyDeleteSpot on. I have been the victim of people's unkind words about something I've created but it can do two things: harden your shell so you don't give a flying fuck for their opinion, or stop your creativity from flourishing.
ReplyDeleteI chose the zero fucks given route though it took a hot minute.