Monday, May 19, 2025

Monday Mood: Relaxed


Returning from a break, I find myself rather relaxed.  I have a couple of little project to work on, but for the most part the "duties that must be done" are done for the year. 

The last couple of weeks of the trip, were very active, walking 2-8 hour most days, exploring the adventure. Being home, in one place, I find myself relaxed, and if anything feeling a little idle. 

All of the walking was good for me, I dropped 10-pounds in the month we were gone.  I should go for another 6 months. 

I visited Steve and Karen, friends of ours in St Paul many years ago. They had a border collie, a sweet little dog. A dog trainer had told them, that border collies need a job, they need a task that sets boundaries that they live by. Thinking about this, we do this in our own lives. Not just in our work life, but in our personal life, we form habits of tasks that "have to be done" that create the boundaries in our life. We create our own "grind" at work or at home. Taking a break, getting away from our day to day life, helps us relax.  A change of scene is good for us. 

And that is what we have returned from. How fast we let the job of living come back into our lives, is up to us. So far, I am still relaxing, taking a break like the guys in Glasgow above.  


14 comments:

  1. Not many people lose weight on a cruise vacation. Well done! I suppose, like you, I’m a border collie.

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  2. The Glaswegian tradie is looking at you with intent to..........You will have his rough almost unintelligible accent in your ears for a long time, particularly remember the word fooking, repeated so many times.

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  3. When I vacation. it's takes me forever to get back into work mode. I love what I do, but I have the feeling, I won't be one of the people who worries what I will do in retirement. But that's a ways off.....

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    1. I stay busy and engaged in life.

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  4. I love a vacation, even if it's just a couple of days aways like we did last weekend in Greenville, but always enjoy coming home. I enjoy the routine and the pets and our home and yard.
    And now we have another little trek coming up for a beach weekend.

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    1. For years I dreamed of trips that really required being away for weeks, and couldn't go because of work obligations. We have now had two month long adventures, and very fond memories of both of them.

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  5. It's nice to be relaxed and enjoying life. Keep it up!

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  6. Being relaxed sounds like the best way to enjoy life.

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  7. It's good to take a break once in awhile.

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  8. Border collies I count not cope with they are too bright and too overactive

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