Wednesday, December 31, 2025

My World of Wonders December 31, 2025


As the sun sets on 2025, where am I? Home, where I should be. 

Where have I been this week? They gym, the pool, Fresh Market, Michaels Arts and Crafts, Trader Joes, Aldi, Harris Teeter, a haircut, 

What have I been up to in the kitchen? Last Wednesday I made Lasagna; wonderful layers of pasta, ricotta, mozzarella, Italian sausage based marinara, and shredded Parmesan.  Thursday was rare roast beef tenderloin, roast Brussels sprouts with Parmesan, green beans, Yorkshire pudding, and a beef and onion gravy. Fruit cake later in the day. Running the self clean cycle on the big oven, it really needed it. Roast loin of lamb, cheesy potatoes and steamed broccoli. 

What did Santahamster bring me for Christmas? Some wonderful figurines of bunnies, sheep and a little bear to add to the ever growing collection, a couple of books, Britcoms on DVD, a pair of Irish knitted sheep, and a wonderful piece of art glass.  All selected with lots of love. 

Who have I talked with? My sweet bear, Doc Spo, Marcell, 

Who have I traded messages with? Erica, Spo, Sassy, Omar, my sister, and my oldest nephew.  Gloria a retired professor of Italian language, who is writing a book about horses in medieval Italy. 

What is on the easel? Another portrait. There is lots of work to do on this one. 

What are my New Year's Eve plans and rituals? I will stay home, stay up late, I have a bottle of bubbly, fruitcake, and caviar (not together,) I will be asleep shortly after midnight. Dinner on New Year's day will be roast pork, and baked beans. My Aunt had a tradition of having money in your hand at the stroke of midnight, I have a wood cigar box with nearly 50 years of money from midnight on New Years in it, I started writing on the paper money the year and location many years ago. Money at New Year's brings money in the New Year. 

What music should be playing at midnight? https://youtu.be/Ik7ktS3PqEs?si=zkna6F-GZErgVJwQ 

What interesting fact did I learn this week? You are 12 times more likely to die the first time you skydive, than the second time you skydive. I will avoid that first time. I never have understood the desire to jump out of a perfectly good airplane. 

Tuesday, December 30, 2025

Tuesday Travels of the Mind: 2025 Reading List

 

George Washington Presidential Library, Mt Vernon, Virginia

  1. How to Have a Life, Selected writings of Seneca, James Romm (P) 
  2. Fall Down 7 Times Get Up 8, Naoko Hgashida (P) Wisdom from a young man with Autism
  3. Zaytinya, Jose Andres (P) an amazing cookbook 
  4. The Thefts of the Mona Lisa, Noah Charney (P) the history of the world's most famous painting 
  5. The Piano Shop on The Left Bank, Thad Carhart (P) a delightful tale of life in Paris, and rediscovering playing the piano as an adult. 
  6. Those Precious Days, Ann Patchett (P) a collection of essays, good, not great. 
  7. Draft No. 4, John McPhee (P) about non-fiction writing. 
  8. All The Time in the World, John Gierach (P) fly fishing in the backwaters of north America, wonderfully written. 
  9. White Space, Jennifer DeLeon (P) the life of a writer from Guatemala 
  10. 100 Great Breads, Paul Hollywood (P) 
  11. Seven Seasons in Siena, Robert Rodi (P) 
  12. Your English is Better Than My French, Scott Carpenter (E) 
  13. Write for Your Life, Anna Quindlen (P) journaling, bio, writing, 
  14. Thoreau's Axe, Caleb Smith (P) distraction and discipline in American culture
  15. Vegetables Unleashed, Jose Andres (P) - Great "cookbook." 
  16. The Book That Changed My Life, Roxanne Coady (P) 
  17. Arts Of The Possible, Adrienne Rich (P) 
  18. The Abundance, Annie Dillard (P) 
  19. The Plot Against Native America, Bill Vaughn (P) 
  20. Low-Hanging Fruit, Randy Rainbow (P) 
  21. Time Pieces, John Banville (P) 
  22. This Is Assisted Dying, Stefanie Green, MD (P) 
  23. A Year in the Maine Woods, Brend Heinrich (P) Well written, not Walden, lots of naturalist content
  24. Three Roads Back, Robert Richardson (P) 
  25. Pig Years, Ellyn Gaydos
  26. Never Play It Safe, Chase Jarvis (P) didn't like it
  27. Botticelli’s Secret, Joseph Lizzie (P)
  28. On Tyranny, Timothy Snyder
  29. Paris Lost and Found, Scott Carpenter (E)
  30. Golden Years, James Cappel (E) 
  31. The Seven Graces of Ageless Aging, Jason Elias (E)
  32. Howards End, E M Forester (2/3rd of it, I couldn't stay awake long enough to finish it.) (P) 
  33. Baking Across America, B. Dylan Hollis (P) 
  34. How to Travel, The School of Life (P) 
  35. Valley of Forgetting, Jennie Erin Smith (P) long winded and pointless. 
  36. The World As I See It, Albert Einstein (P) 
  37. Cheaper Faster Better How we'll win the climate war, Tom Steyer (P)
  38. The Artist's Joy, Merideth Hite Estevez (P)  
  39. Food for Thought, Alton Brown (P) A fun autobiography. 
  40. American Sheep, Brett Bannor (P) Very well written, informative. 
  41. The French Ingredient, Jane Bertch (P) 
  42. Building, Mark Ellison (P) Excellent book by a carpenter from NYC. 
  43. Humans are Underrated, Geoff Colvin (P) 
  44. Revenge of the Tipping Point, Malcom Gladwell (P) 
  45. Happy This Year, Will Bowen (P) 
  46. Imagine, Jonah Lehrer (P) great book on creativity
  47. BOLDER, Carl Honore (P) 
  48. License to Travel, Patrick Bixby (P) 
  49. The Creative Act: A Way of Being, Rick Rubin (P) An modern classic. 
  50. Purple Crayons, Ross Ellenhorn (P) Not worth it. 
  51. The Mysterious Bakery on Rue de Paris, Evie Woods (P), novel
  52. Growing a Feast, Kurt Timmermeister (P) Very good
  53. 50 After 50, Maria Olsen, (P) Did not like, to much of her personal tragedy and no real joy. 
  54. Civility, Steven Selzer (P) 
  55. The American Frugal Housewife, Mrs. Child (P) reprint of a book from 1833
  56. The Slow Traveller, Jo Tinsley (P)
  57. How to Host a Viking Funeral, Kyle Scheele (P) A better title than book. 
  58. The Importance of Being Educable, Leslie Valiant (P) 
  59. Uncharted, Gordon Ramsay (P) 
  60. Longitude, Dava Sobel (P) Very informative. 
  61. Modern Block Printing, Rowan Sivyer (P) 
  62. The Burning of Washington, Anthony Pitch (P) A history of the War of 1812. I learned a few things about what happened in my neighborhood. 
  63. Immortal Milk: Adventures in Cheese, Eric LeMay (P) Well written about small farming, cheese and cooking with love. 
  64. Return, Lynx Vilden (P) 
  65. The Pre-History of The Far Side, by Gary Larson (P) 
  66. In My Remaining Years, Jean Grae (P)
  67. Off the Record, Colin Dobson-Fox (P) erotica. 
  68. Small Wonder, Barbara Kingsolver (P) 
  69. In Praise of Idleness, Bertrand Russell (P) 
  70. Jonathan Livingston Seagull, Richard Bach (P) The first time I have read it, I have no idea why this one sold millions of copies. 
  71. Nature Imprinted, Jane Spink (P) 
  72. Arts of the Possible, Adrienne Rich (P) 
  73. Amplify, Adam Met (P) 
  74. The Slow Traveller, Jo Tinsley (P) 
  75. Long Days Journey Into Night, Eugene O'Neil (P) A play, very much a downer. 
  76. Page after Page, Heather Sellers (P)
  77. Life in the Garden, Penelope Lively (P)
  78. Look Alive Out There, Sloane Crosley (P) 
  79. Barbados Island of the Yellow Bird, Ralfy Mitchell (P) A travelog by a Whiskey YouTuber. 
  80. The Funny Thing Is . . ., Ellen Degeneres (P) I didn't find her very funny. 
  81. Think Like A Rocket Scientist, Jim Longuski (P) Well worth the read, a work of philosophy by a rocket scientist. 
  82. Medium Raw, Anthony Bourdain (P) 
  83. More Than Words, Maryellen MacDonald (P)  Psycholinguistics
  84. Make it Anyway, Danny Gregory (P) Art philosophy  
  85. In Praise of Wasting Time, Alan Lightman (P) slow down, be idle, sleep, find time to do nothing
  86. Portrait Painting, Tricia Reichert (P) 
  87. Beginners, Tom Vanderbilt

Monday, December 29, 2025

Moody Monday: Looking back Looking Forward - Goals for 2026

 

For all of the 40 years that I worked for someone else, I was forced to set goals each year, even worse when I worked in sales and marketing in the homebuilding industry, someone else set goals for me, of how much we needed in gross revenue so that their year end bonus would be enough to pay for the new Porsche they had their eye on. The last 15 years that I worked goal setting was based on the goal being specific, measurable and realistic.  There were goal areas, such as writing, personal development, and skills development. The overall focus was on establishing a list of things to accomplish, that we knew we could accomplish. A roadmap for the year, to travel, on roads we knew existed.  This model works for me. 

These are not New Year's resolutions of unrealistic objectives, like lose 100 pounds, be 20 years younger, or create a billion dollar business.  They are things that are within my ability to do. By setting a list I have a plan, and at the end of the year and can see how I have done. 

Last December I set the following list of goals: 

  • Keep walking at least 60 minutes per day, on average 6 days per week.  Accomplished. 
  • Read 50 or more books. Accomplished - the reading list is tomorrow.  
  • One more bucket list item (Scotland in early May.) Accomplished 
  • Travel I think will be about 45 nights this year. 40 Nights 
  • Blog daily, I missed one day in 2015, and not a day since. Accomplished 
  • Practice arts, painting, photography. Accomplished
  • Submit for at least one arts showcase. Accomplished
  • Try at least one new art. Accomplished - mixed media and printmaking.
  • Ride a local bus. Failed 
  • Finish the chapter on Identity Theft. Accomplished - the book should be out in the first quarter of 2026. 
Hence I accomplished most of these.  I traveled a few fewer nights than expected, 40 instead of 45. I went about 1/3 over budget on the May trip, and wimped out on a couple of trips I had thought about doing later in the year.  I still need to learn the local bus network. 

What are my goals for 2026? 
  • Walk 60 minutes or more, at least 6 days per week. 
  • Read at least a book per week, 52 for the year. 
  • Travel, I expect travel nights to be between 35 and 40 this year. 
  • Go to Mt. Vernon at least 25 times in the year.
  • Publish at least three articles in the ABA Senior Lawyers Division Voice of Experience Journal (I have already committed to four topics.) 
  • Paint, take photos, explore new media. 
  • Organize the greeting card box, and send out 20 or more cards. 
  • Pause at least once a week, to take stock of everything that works in my life. 
What are your plans for 2026?

Sunday, December 28, 2025

The Sunday Five: What Are You Up To In 2026?


1: How do you feel about New Years Resolutions? 

2: Tell us about any travel plans for 2026?

3: Describe how you will explore your artistry in 2026? 

4: What do you plan to read or learn in 2026? 

5: What will you do to find peace in 2026? 

My answers: 

1: How do you feel about New Years Resolutions? Resolutions are all to often dreams, I set goals that are within my capacity to achieve.  

2: Tell us about any travel plans for 2026? The first trip of 2026 is a board meeting in San Antonio. 

3: Describe how you will explore your artistry in 2026? I will keep painting and taking photos. I should take a class or two. 

4: What do you plan to read or learn in 2026? I will read at least a book a week, on whatever catches my eye. Creativity is a theme for 2026. 

5: What will you do to find peace in 2026? Spend time in the pool, limit exposure to FB, and news sites. 

Please share your answers in the comments. 

Saturday, December 27, 2025

The Saturday Morning Post - 50 States in 52 Weeks - Washington District of Columbia (DC)

Now wait a minute, Washington DC is not a state. I know, but adding Puerto Rico and DC rounds out the 52 weeks of the year. And I have been to all 52. 




Washington, District of Columbia or Washington DC as it is more commonly known, is the Capital of the United States. DC is not a state or any part of a state. It is the Capital District, a semi-autonomous city. DC was created on one hundred square miles of land donated by the states of Maryland and Virginia.  In a free-state-slave state compromise in the mid 1800's the land on the Virginia side of the Potomac River was returned to Virginia, and the District is now 68.3 square miles (with a couple of those being underwater.)  

Why is the Capital of the United States not a state, or in a state? There was a fear at the time the Capital was created, based on the experiences of London, and Paris, that the population of the Capital would be so large, in a then sparsely populated country, that it would dominate governance of the entire country.  DC does not have any members in the Senate, and only one largely ceremonial seat in the House of Representatives.  As the population has spread across the country over the past 250 years, there have been repeated calls to make DC the 51st state, I think that would be a good thing. (Opinion is mixed in Puerto Rico on becoming a state, with about half in favor and about half wishing to stay as they are.) Conservatives in Congress consistently oppose DC statehood, as it would add two liberal seats in the Senate, and probably two or three in the House of Representatives.  

Washington DC is a monumental city. Obviously the Capital Building, but also the Washington Monument, The Lincoln Memorial, The Jefferson Memorial, and others line the National Mall, a nearly two mile long park that stretches from the Capitol building to The Lincoln Memorial, with the Washington Monument nearly in the middle. The White House is about a quarter-of-a-mile north of the Washington Monument. 

For the first 5 years I worked here, my office was a block from the White House, then we moved about 3 blocks northwest of the White House. 

The Smithsonian Museums, are actually a collection of massive museums - most of them along the National Mall, featuring Air and Space, Natural History, American History, African American History, Native American History, Asian and African Art and Modern Art. The Smithsonian Museum of American Art, is three blocks north of the mall at Gallery Place. The National Gallery of Art that is on the Mall, is not a part of the Smithsonian (built and funded by philanthropy.)  The Smithsonian has other galleries here in the DC, and in New York City. The largest Smithsonian aircraft museum is nearly 30 miles west of DC, at Dulles International Airport.  It is impossible to "see the Smithsonian" in a day, or even two days. 

Across the street from the east side of the Capital, are two great buildings, the Library of Congress and the Supreme Court. The Main Reading Room of the Library of Congress is under a cathedral style dome, and well worth the trouble to gain access to it (it is not easy, there are rare public open days, or you have to obtain reader access as a scholar or researcher.) I have been there a couple of times.  The Supreme Court Building is a greek-revival temple.  When the Court is not in session, the public can enter the Courtroom fairly easily, when the Court is in session you have to stand in line for a short visit to the public galleries.  For several years, I was able to arrange special seating for our student interns to be seated for an entire oral argument before the Court - it is really a neat experience. 

DC has a good subway system, that connects it to suburbs that are home to over 6-million people. We live a ten minute walk from a subway station. If you are flying here, Ronald Reagan Washington National Airport (DCA), is directly across the River from Washington DC and has a subway station.  Dulles (IAD) is 30 miles west and now has subway access, Baltimore Washington International Airport (BWI) is about 40 miles northeast of the city (without a good transit connection.) Washington Union Station is a couple of blocks north of the Capital and provides rail connections to the east coast. One piece of advice, don't drive into Washington DC. Parking is hard to find, very expensive, and most of the time traffic is dreadful. The photos above were taken between 4:30 and 5:00 AM when traffic was non-existent, by the time I left the city a little after 5:00 traffic was becoming backed up. 

Obviously, I like DC. I found a job here, so we could move here. We actually live about 8 miles south of the Washington Monument as the Eagle flies. 

And this complete 50 States in 52 Weeks. 

Friday, December 26, 2025

Funky Friday: The morning after

 

I hope old blue eyes, got to you, before he got to the bottle of Grey Goose Vodka.  I wouldn't be really surprised if after weeks of listening to all of the demands, and reading all of the letters, and then a night of deliveries that Amazon needs an army of elves to come close to matching, he didn't want to let his flowing white hair down just a little.  Still I was a little worried when I found him tripped up by a sign and fallen over on the sidewalk, how he fell without breaking that bottle of vodka may be the biggest Christmas miracle of 2025.

My advice to you, is take it easy today. Sleep late. Eat and drink with restraint. Take a minute to take stock of everything we have.  There is a point in the movie "Apollo 13" where Gene Kranz calms a room full of engineers and says, we need to focus on what works, on what we have. This morning is a great time to do that. List everything that works without focusing on what does not. The solutions are in what works, not in the things that do not.  

The rest of the story of Santa sprawled out on the sidewalk.  He blew over in the wind. There were people gathered around taking photos when I approached.  When they were finished one of them picked up the bottle of Vodka, then noticed me with a camera, and said "would you like a photo with Santa?" she put the bottle back in his arm. When I finished she picked the bottle back up and went inside, back to work in the store that he has spent a few weeks standing in front of. A shop staff with a sense of humor just a couple of days before Christmas, or maybe a little liquid encouragement. 


Thursday, December 25, 2025

The Thursday Ramble: Merry Christmas to you and yours!



 A short and simple message.
Merry Christmas to you and yours.
Relax today. 
Free yourself from worry.
Everything is just fine.
Enjoy what you have, and you will have something most rich people never have, and that is enough. 
Cherish those around you, and those at a distance. 
Do what you want to do today, and if that is nothing, that is exactly what you should do. 
Feel the love from near and far. 

Wednesday, December 24, 2025

My World of Wonders: December 24, 2025

 

What are my gifts to my readers this year? Advertising has been turned down to a minimum and will be going away in a few short weeks. I will keep writing, hopefully sharing positive ideas for all of you. 

When will you visit the Washington DC area? This is up to you. When you do, reach out to me, you can send an email through the contact box on the left, or leave a comment on the day a post goes up. I would love to meet you for breakfast or lunch while you are here. I am glad to offer advice on how to visit DC (tip number 1, don't drive a car into the district.) I have visitors passes for Mount Vernon that I am glad to share, free admission for up to two adults. If you need helping getting to and from Mt. Vernon, I will try to help. 

What have I been up to in the kitchen this week? Oh it is that time of the year. Last Thursday I made chicken pies. I had poached chicken from a couple of days before when I made stock. I steamed fresh carrots and green beans. Made cheesy mashed potatoes and a thick sauce with the chicken stock and a basic roux. Sauted a few mushrooms. I layered the chicken and veggies in ramekins, poured over the sauce, topped with mashed potatoes and baked in a 425 F oven for about 35 minutes. Lamb stew - oh my, thanks to Stephen's late mother Peggy for telling me how to make it. 

Where have I been this week? The pool, the gym, Mt Vernon, the King Street Farmers Market, the Russian Grocery for caviar and chocolate, out to lunch at our favorite Vietnamese place, Whole Foods, Harris Teeter, lots of grocery and specialty shopping at this time of the year. Into the city for a stroll around the Hirshorn Gallery.  

Who have a talked to this week? My sweet bear. Ruth, Renee was back at water aerobics - I hadn't seen her for a few weeks - she fell the day before Thanksgiving landed on her face and broke her nose. Jon, Amy, Susan, Anna, Gabe, Max, Zack, and Mary. An editorial call, so Cathy, Emily, and others. 

What have I been reading? I have been on a reading binge. Medium Raw by Tony Bourdain, and a book on spoken language written by a professor of linguistics. Interesting facts, it takes more brain power to talk than to listen. Dogs learn to recognize words and symbols, but can not be trained to use them.  

What have I been writing? I finished an article on the importance of visiting people who are seriously ill, and hope to finish an article on travel planning. I committed to writing a fourth article before we leave for this year's grand adventure. 

My greatest Wish for each of you? A gentle and peaceful Christmas and Holiday Season. 

Tuesday, December 23, 2025

Travel Tuesday: Christmas Past

In a departure from exclusively posting photos I have taken, this post is entirely photos others have taken. All but one of these, is a scan from the over 1,600 slides my father collected over 60 years. 

My father, probably 1972. 

Before I was born. 

My two brothers, my sister, my aunt Edith and grandmother. 

My oldest brother.

My two brothers, long before my sister and I were born.

My sister and my middle brother.

The four of us. On the right hand corner of the top of the television is a tiny santa, I have that - at the last minute I plucked it out of the china cabinet at my father's house as we were turning the contents over to an estate sale company. I didn't realize until I scanned this slide, that it has been around as long as I have. 


Mom with a new hair dryer. The white artificial tree was bought the winter we lived in Phoenix, and put up many years. It was my father's favorite. 

On South Mountain in Phoenix the winter we lived there. 

My aunt Edith and my Mother, probably 1948 or 1949. 

My parents owned that end table all of their married life. When we cleaned out the house, no one wanted it. 

I have a couple of the ornaments that were on this tree 

Aunt Edith and my Grandmother 

My father and my oldest brother.

My mother, grandmother, Emma and Bill Baker in the first little house my father built on the farm. 

 

Monday, December 22, 2025

Monday Mood: Hanging on

I won't lie, it has been a challenging week to remain positive and upbeat. Senseless murders and TDS getting inside my head. Defiling of the Kennedy Center for the Performing Arts. It has been challenge keeping compassion from turning into depression.  It has been a difficult week, in what should be a season of hope. 

So what can we do? 

Be kind in what we say or do. If we are fortunate enough to live in a place that is safe and secure, acknowledge that many in the world are less fortunate. And really, isn't that what all but the truly deranged want in life and for the world, comfort, peace, safety and security? 

What else can I do this week?

  • Find little ways to be helpful to others. 
  • Random acts of kindness. 
  • Send encouraging messages to friends and family. 
  • Create beauty in any way I can. 
  • Encourage others to be kind and peaceful.
  • Speak out against hate. 
  • VOTE, VOTE, VOTE. 
The holidays can be stressful. Hang on, take care of yourself, be extra kind. Hang on!  You may be the only person who can take care of you. 

I close most of my emails with the phrase "Take care."  And I truly mean it, take care of yourself, each and everyday. Be gentle as a lamb. 



 

Sunday, December 21, 2025

The Sunday Five: Dancer and Prancer and Vixen


1: Do you dance in public? 

2: Will any holiday parties you attend this year include dancing? 

3: Tell us about the last time you danced in public?

4: Tell us about any dance classes you might have ever taken? 

5: Should it be illegal to dance at the Jefferson Memorial in Washington DC? 

My answers: 

1: Do you dance in public? Not in decades 

2: Will any holiday parties you attend this year include dancing? No

3: Tell us about the last time you danced in public? It would have been in Orlando before we moved north in 1995, at the Firestone Club on Orange Avenue. The crowd was always fun. 

4: Tell us about any dance classes you might have ever taken? I was a 4-H member as a teenager, and we had square dancing lessons one summer. 

5: Should it be illegal to dance at the Jefferson Memorial in Washington DC? It mystifies me as to why it is, the law is periodically protested and enforced. 

Please share your answers in the comments. 

Saturday, December 20, 2025

The Saturday Morning Post: 50 States in 52 Weeks: Puerto Rico


Well we have moved past the 50 states, to a couple of territories to finish out the year. 

I went to Puerto Rico for work, an AARP training gig, at the Caribe Hilton on the water in San Juan. I have just a handful of photos, probably taken with my phone, though they might have been taken with an early digital camera.  The wind seemed to blow constantly when I was there, strong and noisy at times.  The hotel lobby was amazing, it was open on the water side and the street side, with the breezes blowing through. 

The people were welcoming and wonderful.  Most legal education materials in Puerto Rico are in English, the audience was strongly bilingual. For the question and answer part, there was a simultaneous translator, with an earpiece and all. The only time I have worked with a live translator in a training. 

I had little time to wander around, only a couple of hours. I really enjoyed it.  

When I lived in Orlando, a good part of my client base was from Puerto Rico, or as many described themselves, New Yoreakans, their family moved and they were born and raised in New York City.  

PR is a US territory or protectorate. A historic artifact. The people born there are US citizens, but self governing. Many, but not all, Federal laws and programs apply.  Items manufactured in Puerto Rico are considered US products, but the companies are not subject to US Corporate Tax - leading to the manufacture of high margin items such as pharmaceuticals and military hardware on the island.  

I would love to go back. 

Friday, December 19, 2025

Funky Friday: Walt Whitman and the National Portrait Gallery

Major parts of the National Portrait Gallery in Washington DC, is housed buildings built in the early 1800's. Part of it was a post office, and the part pictured above housed the Patent Office. At the end of this corridor is the delightful three story space with galleries that housed the library of patent models. 

In the early 1860's, the post office and patent office packed away into storage, and the space was converted to a hospital for soldiers and sailors injured in the US Civil War.  There were an estimated 1.5 million people injured or got sick during the War, with about half of those dying. Disease killed as many, or more, than wounds. Tens of thousands of men spent weeks, months or years requiring medical care. 

Walt Whitman, an American poet of the era, volunteered in this hospital.  He spent months at bedside talking with the patients, reading to them, and helping them write letters home. He wrote about it in his journals, many of the patients wrote or spoke of the experience. 

It is clear from the writings, that his affection for some of the patients went beyond that of a kindly old author. One of nature's batchelors made some special friends while helping them recover from the war.

When I walk those halls, I sometimes think of the compassion and passion of the past in that sacred space.    

 

Thursday, December 18, 2025

The Thursday Ramble: Alexandria City Hall


This photo was taken a couple of years ago, of city hall in Alexandria. Market Square, home to my local Saturday Morning Farmers Market surrounds the fountain. There has been a market on that space for over 250 years, it claims to the be oldest continuously operated farmers market in the country.  Parts of city hall, predate the Civil War, the state government was temporarily housed in it, when Virginia rejoined the Union after the Civil War (Richmond had burned in the war.)

Built during a remodel about 50 years ago, there is a two story underground parking garage under market square.  One of the best garages in the area and it owned by the city so it has some of the best prices. 

City Hall, Market Square and the garage, are closing in January for a major remodel. The building is in need of major utility and structural updates, the cast concrete beams in the garage are cracking, and replacing those beams is essential to holding up the plaza on the square. Estimates are two to three years for the work. 

The Market will be moving across the street to the west, into a courtyard square. City offices will be moving into temporary spaces around the city.  The city owns another garage, under the Court House a block away.    

Wednesday, December 17, 2025

My World Of Wonders - December 17, 2025


Where have I been this week? Into the City for lunch with a dear friend and a nice cold walk across town, the grocery store, an Aldi run. The pool, the treadmill. The library, Safeway and CVS Drugstore. 

How has the weather been? Cold, cold, cold, cold, cold, a little snow, colder, and cold. 

What have I been up to in the kitchen? Beef and barley soup,  homemade chili with beans, roast pork tenderloin and a corn pudding, tortellini in broth - this is my spin on an Italian classic. I started by poaching a whole chicken, with onion, celery, carrots and spices. Then boned out the chicken and simmered the bones for two hours, strained the broth. I added back in some of the cooked chicken and a package of fresh (pre-made) tortellini to cook. I have about a liter of chicken stock and the two poached chicken breasts in the refrigerator to make something with later this week. 

What did I do that was unusual? I decided on Saturday I didn't want to do anything, and I did slightly less than that. 

Who have a talked to this week? My sweet bear. The gang at Water Aerobics, a board meeting from my old office, Erica, 

What is the exciting family news? My oldest nephew and his wife welcomed a baby boy to the family this week. I am now a great uncle times two. 

What is on the easel this week? I finished a self portrait, it is interesting, and I am nearly finished with a nighttime cityscape. 

What was the best thing I read this week? In a book titled "Think Like A Rocket Scientist",  a child asked to bricklayers what they were doing, the first one answered, "what a silly question, I am laying bricks one after another, after another." The second one responded, "I am building a magnificent cathedral that will bring awe and wonder for centuries." Frame your acts as a part of the big picture, be a part of something greater than the work at the moment. 

What is playing in the background? Michael Buble Christmas music on YouTube, in 8 days, I will be ready to change the channel for 11.5 months. 

Tuesday, December 16, 2025

Travel Tuesday: The Folger Shakespeare Library

Located behind the main building of the Library of Congress, is the Folger Shakespeare Library. In a nutshell, the Folger's were wealthy collectors, who started the collection and museum. It is independent, ie: not a part of the Smithsonian. I had never been there until a couple of weeks ago. Admission is free, a voluntary donation of $15 is encouraged. The reading room, is open for non-researchers on weekends,  I will be going back to see that.  






One of the worlds largest collections of the original bound folios of the works of William Shakespeare 


A delightful Elizabethan Theater 

The restaurant and coffee shop, they now serve afternoon tea. 

 

Monday, December 15, 2025

Monday Mood: What made me smile last week

What is going on here, a fisheye specialty lens bending reality at Mt Vernon.

It is a good life, I have lived well, and hope to live until I don't. 

Something I read: A young child asked two bricklayers what they were doing. The first one responded, "what a silly question, I am laying bricks." The second one answered, "I am building a magnificent cathedral that will inspire people for ages."  Be like the second mason.  

I was exercising in the deep end of the pool one afternoon. I could see down the long hallway of the art gallery space.  Twice in the 35 minutes I was in the water (I time myself) people walking down the corridor, suddenly stopped, turned and examined one of the works of art hanging on the wall.  I struggle with how to describe it, but that is why we create art, that is why we curate or organize shows, that is why we do this. The show is huge, 52 works by 22 artists, putting it together was a lot of work, but if it touches people who are passing by, it is worth it. Building something bigger than the bricks. 


A friend posted on social media this week, that she is in a new relationship with someone very special. It made me smile that she has found love and happiness. When you know, you know. Something bigger than the bricks. 




Sunday, December 14, 2025

The Sunday Five: Holiday Plans


1: Are you planning anything special for the end of the year holidays? 

2: Are you traveling anyplace for the end of the year holidays? 

3: Is your gift shopping finished? 

4: Who will be cooking for your end of the year holidays? 

5: Have you thought about your goals for 2026? 

My answers: 

1: Are you planning anything special for the end of the year holidays? Quiet time with my sweet bear, here in our comfy nest. 

2: Are you traveling anyplace for the end of the year holidays? Thankfully, no. For years, family obligations turned the holidays into travel days. It is relaxing to stay home.  If my siblings want to join us for the holidays, I will be glad to cook.  US Highway 1 runs in both directions, from near my brother's front door, and our front gate. 

3: Is your gift shopping finished? By the time this posts, Yes. 

4: Who will be cooking for your end of the year holidays? I will. The plan is roast beef and Yorkshires for Christmas, and probably ham for New Year's. 

5: Have you thought about your goals for 2026? I have a couple of ideas floating around, it is time for me to start putting things on the screen. Near the end of the year, my results from 2025 and goals for 2026 will be a post. 

Please share your answers in the comments. 

Saturday, December 13, 2025

The Saturday Morning Post - 50 States in 52 Weeks - Wyoming




Wyoming is one of the very large, almost rectangular states, north of Colorado and Utah, touching on the southern border of Idaho, with Montana above it. 

In August of 2023, I drove north from Denver to Cheyenne, spent the night and drove west nearly all the way across the state, turning north to go to Idaho and complete my pilgrimage to visit all 50 states. In an ideal world Wyoming would have been the last state for me to visit, because alphabetically it is the last state, but the routing just didn't work out. Wyoming was an add on to a work trip, meetings in Denver that I needed to attend. 

The Interstate Highway runs east to west in a nearly straight line, with a gentle roll in the landscape for well over 200 miles.  Going west I got off the main roads and drove the back roads to the south, through more mountains, climbing to over 10,000 feet in elevation.  It was spectacular. 

In a very desolate way, this is a very pretty part of the world. 

Glad I have been there, though I would be happy to return, I very much doubt that I will ever return. 

And that is 50 states, but there are 52 weeks, onto a territory and district to round out the year.