Tuesday, August 26, 2025
Monday, August 25, 2025
Monday Moods: Late Summer Angest
I have noticed over the last decade that the last couple of weeks in August, are often a weird time for me. I notice it now, but it is probably a longer term behaviour pattern dating back to childhood. The end of August was peak harvest season on the funny farm, a tense time when our fortunes, good or bad, for the year were revealed. It was back to school season, change of routine, new teachers, new classes, new challenges. Work on the harvest would kick into high gear at the same time school was starting, working 7 days a week until it was all in the barrel in late September or early October. And it is also my birthday season.
Acknowledging that this is a weird time of the year for me helps - but does not entirely settle the sense of being unsettled.
Add to that this year some expensive car repairs - I hate spending money on car repairs, and it took almost 48 hours for the shop to tell me what was wrong and what it was going to cost to fix. Assuming the parts arrive I should get the little convertible back, and be able to put the top down late Tuesday or sometime on Wednesday. I look forward to a long drive out to Mt Vernon and back with the wind blowing in what is left of my hair. (The top had not worked in several months.)
Today should be fun, I am meeting an old friend for a long chatty lunch and maybe a little retail therapy. We have not had a chance to sit and ramble on for a few years. Lots has happened in both of our lives since the last time.
Acknowledging and talking or writing about how I am feeling, helps me. Knowing what works for me, and doing it, is good. I should be back to my less stressed status within a few days.
I should find a way to divert myself during the last couple of weeks in August, to change this long term behaviour pattern.
Sunday, August 24, 2025
The Sunday Five: Row-Row-Row Your Boat
1: What is your experience with canoes?
2: Tell us about the last time you were on a boat?
3: What size boat would you like to have?
4: How close do you live to water that you could boat on?
5: Have you ever owned a boat?
My answers:
1: What is your experience with canoes? I have never been in one.
2: Tell us about the last time you were on a boat? In May we took the Thames River Taxi from near the Wheel to Greenwich.
3: What size boat would you like to have? Something small and slow, with a shallow draft that I could explore the wetlands along the river in. It has to be a power boat. Electric would be fine.
4: How close do you live to water that you could boat on? We are about a mile as the eagle flies from the Potomac River, closer than that the Hunting Run, but there are no boats on it.
5: Have you ever owned a boat? No, always wanted to.
Please share your answers in the comments.
Saturday, August 23, 2025
The Saturday Morning Post: 50 States in 52 Weeks North Dakota
My time in North Dakota was purely a work trip. I flew into Bismark, went to dinner, spent the night, taught a full day workshop the next day and flew home that evening. Dinner was on a River Boat, the state aging commissioner picked me up in a massive Buick station wagon. I remember the car more than the dinner or boat ride.
It was before digital cameras, and I was traveling lite and didn't take a camera with me, it was an overnight work trip. So, sadly I have no original photos from the trip (the photo above was taken last April in England.)
A few stand out memories. A Hops farm near the airport. I had never seen hops growing before. It is essentially a vine, and they grow it on massive trellis, probably 10-15 feet tall, and probably a 40 acre field of it near the entrance to the airport.
The hotel we stayed in was on a hilltop on the edge of town, out near the interstate. I was standing there looking out at the view, and a local walked up and started talking. He said, see that tree on the horizon? That is over a dozen miles away, and there is not another tree between here and there, hell there isn't a cow between here and there. The vastness of open prairie is something to see. There are hundreds of miles of gently rolling grasslands across the middle of the country that most people will never see. It is easy in DC, or NYC, to think that we are covering the country with pavement and houses, but we are not.
Would I go back there, yes. Maybe someday I will take a train across the country.
Friday, August 22, 2025
Funky Friday: Explore to Inspire
Google tells me that Pacaya is the bloom of a palm plant, and is used as a vegetable in Guatemalan cuisine. Salted Jellyfish is used in Asian dishes. Foods from places I have not been, foods I have not tried. In the case of Pacaya a food I had never heard of.
Driving home from an outing one day last week we visited a recently opened international supermarket that is a couple of miles down US-1 from home. Neighbors had mentioned it during our last First Friday gathering. One person had found it overwhelming and left in a bit of a panic. Another found it simply fascinating. We had a nice walk around, exploring aslies of the routine and unexpected. We didn't buy anything, but I will probably go back for a selection of things that inspire me to explore new flavors and textures.
Many years ago (I was still living in Lexington so it was before 2009) I read a book on artists and creativity. One of her recommendations was to stop in stores you have never been in before. Explore stores that are totally unrelated to anything you have ever done, or are related but are shops you have never entered. The author urged her readers to do this at least once a week. It can be planned, it can be random, but allow yourself the time to explore the unfamiliar. She was right, I find inspiration in it.
Exploring is like reading things you are unfamiliar with. Readers fall into habits, I have at times read everything an author has published, or everything I could find on an obscure topic like the concept of time, or being alone. Others read romance novels, or mysteries, or science fiction, and tend to stick to that genre. I am primarily a non-fiction reader. On the way home from Toronto I was delayed in the airport longer than expected, I went into the bookshop and bought a novel. Far from the non-fiction I most often read, it was a story, with a plot, and predictable characters, and a little bit of a mystery, and of course an everyone lives happily ever after ending. Will it turn me into a fiction reader, no, but it might inspire me to add more character into my writing, something that is probably missing, especially in my professional writing.
Exploring this market will inspire my play time in the kitchen, maybe leading to some interesting Foodie Friday posts.
Then where was the toothpaste with Herbs and Barks!
Thursday, August 21, 2025
The Thursday Ramble: Developing as a Person
There is a debate going on about the value of higher education. In the United States college education has become expensive. (A note for my international readers, in the United States college is anything beyond high school or secondary school. The institution maybe known as a University or a College.)
Many argue that what we need are tradesmen, such as skilled painters, and a college degree is not going to teach you how to paint a house, or a car. A trade school or an apprenticeship will. Given a choice between a painter with a degree in art and one without, I would hire the painter with. Even a few art classes will teach color theory, color blending, how light works in a space. If I say I want something like a VanDyke Brown the art major will know what I am thinking, the trade school painter will go look in a color chart and likely tell me "we don't have anything like that." I want a painter who has taken some science courses, so they understand the chemicals in the paint they are using, are the fumes harmful? If they spill or drip, do they understand the chemistry of removing the spot or stain.
There as a huge push over the past 20 years to increase the number of graduates in Science, Technology, Engineering, and Math (STEM.) Reports are that increasing numbers of STEM graduates are finding themselves working outside of their field of study. There are two factors at play, there are too many of them, and many of them may be able to do run the numbers, but lack the ability to understand how STEM connects to day to day life. One pundit said, "a degree in computer science, is the fast track to a job at Chipotle" (a fast food burrito chain.) And you know what, I would sooner my burrito bowl be made by someone with a college degree than someone without.
My journey to higher education started at a two-year junior or community college. It was on my drive to and from the office, classes were available in the evenings, and it was incredibly inexpensive (this was the early 1980s.) I after a year or so, I transferred the credits to a private liberal arts college.
Looking back the liberal arts education changed me in profound ways. It opened my eyes to a much wider world. I had a sampling of many subjects, but all of them connected what I was studying to life. For all but one semester, I worked full time and took classes half time, mostly in the evenings. It took me almost ten years to finish a four year degree (there was a couple of years off in there for a failed marriage.)
Along the way, I learned to do research. I learned to read for knowledge. I learned the basics of writing in various styles for various purposes. I learned to understand other people and other cultures. I learned the lessons of history. I learned to speak. How to think and sound like an educated person. I learned how to understand models and apply them. I learned how to find the connections between seemingly unrelated ideas and experiences. I learned that there are things that are fundamentally right and wrong, tolerable and intolerable. I am proud to say, I became WOKE, I woke up to the concept of fairness in the world. A liberal arts education changed me as a human being.
I was able to go on and earn a doctorate in law. Another experience that change me as a person. There are two major things in legal education. One is the development and application of rules. I learned to read past legal precedent, determine the basis for the finding, and apply that to a new set of facts. And I learned the importance of the precision use of words and punctuation. In the preceding sentence, there should not be a comma before the "and" because both the words and the punctuation must be considered. One of my professors had spent several years litigating comma placement in a contract with millions of dollars at stake (her side lost, and several high rise apartment buildings were torn down rather than repaired.)
Higher education helps us develop to our fullest ability. It should be more widely available. It should be more affordable. My BA was paid for when I finished, my three years of law school school, cost about what one year costs twenty five years later at the same school. If the United States is to continue as a leader in the world, we need to address affordability of higher education. An educated workforce, makes a country stronger.
I learned how to learn, and that learning is a lifelong experience. There is an old proverb about growing as a person that goes, as long as you are green you are growing, when you are ripe, you start to rot. I am still green, still learning, still reading, and seeing, and hearing, and tasting, and smelling. I expect to have a stack of books in the process of being read, when they find me decomposing.
Wednesday, August 20, 2025
My World of Wonders, aka, the Wednesday Ws, August 20,2025
Where have I been? Home much of the time, I took three days off to rest and get well when not feeling well. The farmers market. I made it back to gym for treadmill walks starting on Sunday. Last Wednesday we went to IKEA and stopped for lunch on the way home. Aldi and Target for a little stock up. And out to lunch at Chiplotte, the art supply store for canvases and a picture frame.
Who have a talked with? My sweet bear, Ruth from down the hall, a couple of vendors at the farmers market. Giuseppe and Larry.
Who have I reached out to? Doc Spo just to say hi. A couple of old work contacts.
What is the quote of the week? "It was so quiet in the conference room at work, you could hear the cockroaches silently reconsidering their decision to be there."
What have I been reading? Growing a Feast, a memoir written by a farmer on one of the islands near Seattle about farm life, cows, and cheese making. (It is a slow read, you want to savor it like a fine cheese.)
What have I been up to in the kitchen? On Saturday I made roast beef eye round, Sunday I made bread and soup based on the roasting veggies from the beef on Saturday. Home made guacamole.
Where was the photo above taken? The Smithsonian Gallery of American Art. This part of the building was built as a home for the Patent Office, in the early 1800's, served as a hospital during the Civil War, Walt Whitman read the patients and wrote letters to send home to their families in this space.
When is the next adventure? Hmm, ideas but the only firm plans are for next spring. I should do a Midwest driving trip this fall, family and friends to see. And next February there is a conference with a couple of board meetings I should go to in San Antonio.
What caught my eye on YouTube this week? Rewilding Jude, a 30-something English guy, who moved to very rural Scotland and bought an old stone house on an acre of land. He describes himself as burned out and grieving and wanting something different. He is a good content creator. Part of me wishes I had done what he is doing, then I remember that when I burned out in my 30's, I moved 800 miles north, went to law school and started an entirely new career.
What is the weather like? Overcast and cooler. Sunday it was 93, Tuesday it was 70. The forecast for the next few days is cooler. It may be the end of the outdoor pool season for me. But it can easily go back into the 90's (f) in September.
Tuesday, August 19, 2025
Travel Tuesday: Toronto
Monday, August 18, 2025
Monday Mood: Treating Myself Well
As a kid, I would get a couple of days out of school, then be pushed back on the bus to school. The beginning of a lifetime of pushing through when not feeling well. There was work to be done, and I needed to be there. As an adult I often worked solo, if I didn't do the work, it didn't get done. I had to be almost dead, to not push through the and go to the office. I will admit that I went to work, many times when I shouldn't have. Only once did a boss look at me and say, "GO HOME and take care of yourself!"
This time, was different. I allowed myself to rest, to relax. To not do the things to do, but to allow the illness to run it's course. I didn't cook a couple of days when it was my day to cook. I skipped water aerobics a couple of days. I skipped my daily treadmill walks.
I see this is a step forward in my mental health. I had a driven career, I mostly put work ahead of my health or personal life. Allowing myself time to recover should have been a natural behavior, and not a luxury. The joys of retirement, I can allow myself this time and not feel guilty about it. And in the words of Martha Stewart, is a good thing.
Sunday, August 17, 2025
The Sunday Five: Finding Your Way Around
Saturday, August 16, 2025
Saturday Morning Post: 50 States in 52 Weeks North Carolina
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Duke Chapel |
North Carolina is geographically at about the center of the east coast of the United States. It is physically a very diverse state, from the windswept Atlantic Coast, to the Appalachian mountains in the west. There are two major metropolitan areas, Charlotte, and the research triangle of Raleigh, Durham and Chapel Hill. Home to two of the best Universities in the Country, UNC and Duke. Those two areas are filled with educated cultured people, surrounded by the deep south, in many ways still recovering from the civil war and desegregation.
Located just south of Virginia, North Carolina was often a drive through state for me, not stopping as I passed through.
Worth visiting, outside of the two real cities, I wouldn't want to live there.
Friday, August 15, 2025
Foodie Friday: Playing in the kitchen again
A couple of weeks ago, I noticed a can of pumpkin puree in the pantry, it had been there since last fall. A few days later, on a Sunday I was thinking I would like something sweet. So I did a search for inspiration, and here is what I ended up with. A Pumpkin Raisin Loaf.
Preheat oven to 350 F
Wet ingredients
15 ounce can of pumpkin puree (or use fresh or frozen.)
2 eggs
1/4 cup melted butter
1/2 cup white sugar
1/2 cup brown sugar
Mix or whisk those together.
Dry ingredients:
2.5 cups flour
1 teaspoon baking powder
1 teaspoon baking soda
large pinch of salt (more if you use unsalted butter.)
1/2 teaspoon ground cloves
1/2 teaspoon ground allspice
1 teaspoon ground cinnamon
Mix these together and fold into the wet ingredients
Then fold in 1.5 cups of raisins.
Bake in a well greased 9 by 5 loaf pan, for 60-90 minutes, until a bamboo skewer or toothpick comes out clean.
Cool, slice, and enjoy.
It makes a nice desert or breakfast.
This could also be baked as muffins, the baking time would be greatly reduced.
Thursday, August 14, 2025
Thursday Ramble: How did this happen, and how do we move forward
Political Content Warning
I am going to talk about politics
If this upsets you, skip this post
I will see you tomorrow with something foodie.
Like many of my readers, I am unhappy with politics in the United States. How did we get here?
People voted, the difference was not huge, 1 or 2 or 3 percent difference in most states. A few thousand more voters showed up for one side.
How did Kamala not draw those few voters?
I have talked with a few people who were unhappy with work her office did when she was attorney general in California, and felt that they couldn't vote for her. They would sooner not vote, than vote for her, some of them chose to sit the election out.
I have talked with a few people who were unhappy that Kamala was not on the primary ballots when they voted. They felt uncomfortable with the way she became the candidate of the Democratic Party. They would not have voted for her in the primary, and would sooner sit the election out than vote for her in general election.
I have talked with a few people who would not vote for any woman for President. Sexism is still a part of our culture.
Joe Biden was okay as a President, but the administration didn't leave a lot of people in awe looking for ways to carry on the work, when he was pressured to withdraw. There was a lack of enthusiasm.
Personally, when I voted for Joe in the primary, I didn't think he would complete a second term, I was really voting for Kamala, expecting that she would finish the term, and then run for election on her own. But many didn't share my feelings on this.
Hence, just enough people, didn't show up.
Slightly more than half of the people who did show up, are either core voters who would vote for a convicted felon if that was the candidate of the party, or voters who feel left behind or abandoned.
Anger and helplessness leads to scapegoating, blaming what has happened or not happened in their lives on other people, government, or other countries. The real message in "Hillbilly Elegy" is about failure in working class middle America. The rage is real. And leaders of the past 50 years have done little to improve the lives of those impacted.
In fact we have raised the cost of higher education, making it harder to climb the economic and social ladder. We have encouraged businesses to lower the cost of goods, leading to offshoring of many working class jobs. Business owners who put their communities and workers first, were made increasingly larger and larger offers until they were bought out and despite promises to the contrary most of the jobs were shipped out of the country. At the same time other countries around the world encouraged industrial growth with expanding power grids, transportation infrastructure, and very low cost financing of industrial facility construction.
Rather than insist that Congress update our outdated immigration laws, we selectively enforced or simply didn't enforce the laws. Congress left laying around on the books emergency authority that allows the President to set tariffs, that was passed decades ago at a time of need, and never repealed (and was poorly worded potentially allowing it's application decades later.)
How do we move forward?
We need to stay angry and motivated.
We need visionary leadership - come on Pete.
AND
We need people to show up and vote, even when we are not perfectly happy with the candidate. The people who didn't show up and vote for Kamala, who also wouldn't vote for HWSNBN, elected HWSNBN. Not voting, elects a person you wouldn't vote for. The margins were not that large. Turn out was the key.
You can change this in the mid-term. Make sure you vote, and encourage like minded friends and neighbors to show up and vote. One on One, we can make a difference.
Wednesday, August 13, 2025
My World of Wonders also known as (aka) the Wednesday Ws, August 13, 2025
Where have I been this week? Toronto for three days, then home, the gym, the pool, into DC to have lunch with a friend, a stroll through the Smithsonian Museum of American Art and National Portrait Gallery, and headed off to IKEA today.
Who have I talked with this week? Oh tons of people, Cathy, Amy, Bob, Erica, Tom, Eric, Loraine, Bob, Skip, a couple of wonderful meetings with old friends.
What did I hear that is quotable? "When he speaks, my toilet flushes itself."
What was the best thing I ate this week? Eggs Benedict and Poutine.
What have I been reading? I finished the purple crayon book, and started into a reprint of the Frugal Housewife, the type is so small it is hard to read. Saturday my flight home was delayed, and I picked up a paperback novel in the airport shop, "The Mysterious Bakery on the Rue de Paris," it was fun - but so predictable and full of sexist stereotypes, I started "Growing a Feast."Tuesday, August 12, 2025
Travel Tuesday: Greenwich
Monday, August 11, 2025
Moody Monday: Fresh Perspective
A couple of nights in Toronto gave me a fresh perspective on the world. People were nice, kind, and understanding.
Toronto looks prosperous, lots of new high rise buildings, lots of independent clothing stores. Tim Horton's on every other block, and a few Starbucks, but not many. Lots of good food.
Watching television without pharmaceuticals advertising is a very pleasant experience. And without competition from the drug pushers, even a few local businesses are able to afford television advertising.
Toronto seems to truly embrace the vibrant diversity of the people who live and visit there. Being a truly bilingual country, seems to bring a tolerance of differing languages that I don't see at home. In my morning of wandering around I heard French, German, Swedish, Spanish, Arabic, and Mandarin.
There is a pride of Canadian grown, and Canadian made on display across the city. A model for how it can be done. And yes, I went into an LCBO store (liqueur control board of Ontario) and there was not a single product made in the USA on display. I do hope this brings a renaissance of distilling in Canada. I would like to see more high quality offerings grown and made in a country that grows millions of acres of grain.
It was nice to meet up with old friends, and make new ones (I was there for an American Bar Association meeting.)
How did it leave my mood? It was great to see a city and a country that is doing well in global chaos. One person said, "well Canada has had her share of politicians we were embarrassed by." People were nice, and Toronto blooming is a world city.
It was great to get away for a couple of nights. It does a body and mind a lot of good to see the world from a different, fresh perspective.
Sunday, August 10, 2025
The Sunday Five: Is it funny?
Saturday, August 09, 2025
The Saturday Morning Post: 50 States in 52 weeks New York
There is more to New York than the City. I have spent time in upstate, the finger lakes district and Niagara. Places that will take your breath away. I need to visit Albany and the surrounding area someday, to see Sassy Bear, and a really great lawyer who was on my board.
When you get a chance see New York, beyond New York City, go an enjoy. Seeing New York City and saying you have been to New York, is like visiting London and saying you have seen England. You may have seen a great part of it, but there is so-so much more to see.
Friday, August 08, 2025
Foodie Friday: Let the Pizza Out
Bread, cheese, sausage, olives, tomato, herbs, simple core ingredients, that create one of the most amazing foods.
Pizza is not hard to make. Do a quick search and find a simple dough recipe. I use 3/4 cup warm water, a dash of sugar, and a tablespoon of dry active yeast, mix that and set it aside for five minutes. About two cups of bread flour (high gluten or strong flour), a dash of salt, and a good drizzle of olive oil. Mix those together, and knead with a stand mixer for about five minutes. Let it rise in a warm place for an hour or longer. 3 or 4 hours will develop more flavor.
Preheat the oven blazing hot, 450 F.
Stretch the dough, sprinkle on the toppings of your choice. My biggest mistake is piling the toppings to thick, keep them thin.
Bake until done, that might be 5 minutes, it might be 20.
Then let it free, it is unhappy kept behind bars, and pizza should be happy. Make it often, and enjoy it deeply. It is good hot out of the oven, and even better cold for breakfast the next morning. I still don't know what to think of shrimp and pineapple on a pizza, but whatever floats your boat.