Monday, October 17, 2022

Music Monday - 30 Years of Silly Love Songs


October 17, 1992 we formed a family.  It was 23 years before marriage laws caught up with us, we were married on October 17, 2015.  So this is either our 30th or 7th anniversary.  We have grown, together, in commitment, in understanding, in Love, and we have a lot of adventures left to experience.  

How did we last 30 years? Kindness, understanding, putting love ahead of ego, spending quality time together, allowing one another alone time.  I think we both know what the other's emotional soft spots are, and we avoid them.  We know what to say that would hurt the other person, and we never say it.  We do little things for one another, just because we can, and doing it makes the other person feel good.  Seperate bathrooms have probably helped, I am a slob, and he is not. We have always each had private or personal space at home, privacy and trust as simple as that.  

If we live as long as our mothers did, we will make it to 50 years.  Looking forward to the adventure.  

17 comments:

  1. Happy anniversary to you both!

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  2. Happy anniversary. 30 is the one that truly counts. And, yes, separate bathrooms is the true secret to a successful relationship.

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  3. Wise words about how to treat each other. Happy Anniversary and may you have many more!

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    1. Thank you, and we treasure each day, each adventure

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  4. Long live silly love songs and Happy 30th anniversary!

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  5. I forgot we shared an anniversary--with AM and RTG, too--so here's the the first thirty and on to the next!!! 💗💗💗💗💗

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  6. 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘

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  7. Happy Anniversary!! And, many, many more.

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  8. Wishing both of you, many more years.
    Coffee is on and stay safe

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  9. Happy Belated Anniversary. What a landmark to be proud of and an inspiration. Everything you said defines a good marriage (for us, at least.) Our (wedding) Anniversary is in October a swell. Let's celebrate together some year, shall we?


    Sassybear
    https://idleeyesandadormy.com/

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    1. Sounds like fun, in a year or two

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